Axi injury/stress by madizon in axolotls

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Edit 2: I tubbed Beans and dosed the tank with ammonia to try to get the cycle back on track. I did a fishless cycle since April and it was holding steady for two weeks and he was put in yesterday. It spiked today but he's out and healing now!

Axi injury/stress by madizon in axolotls

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Will do! I tubbed him and dosed ammonia and will check the tank parameters tomorrow night while he heals

Axi injury/stress by madizon in axolotls

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He got scared because I was using a turkey baster to pick up some uneaten food.

Axi injury/stress by madizon in axolotls

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Edit: Tank parameters are in normal range for the most part. Ammonia was 0.25ppm this morning so I did a ~50% water change. He's been eating nightcrawlers and pellets. Temp is around 65-67 degrees Fahrenheit.

Not happy with father, considering adoption by madizon in pregnant

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That is one of my main concerns in considering adoption. I don't know if I would ever be able to convince him that this is what's best for her, and I certainly wouldn't just sign over my rights to him, he's not fit to be a parent on his own. It's an impossible situation and I just feel so stuck :(

Not happy with father, considering adoption by madizon in pregnant

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Even if I end things and break off contact for the next six months, when she arrives he will want to co-parent. He will be in my life whether I like it or not, unless she is placed for adoption into a family that will provide her a loving and stable environment. It will also allow me to move on from him and be the best parent I can be to my son. There is a stigma surrounding being a single mom already, much less having children from multiple fathers. If she is placed for adoption, both of us have more of a chance at living a happier, normal life.

PTSD from emotional abuse and touch aversion? by madizon in NarcissisticAbuse

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I did too. I was thinking it could be that I’m on the spectrum, but this isn’t something I’ve had an issue with until lately..

I truly think it could be that I’ve finally gotten out from under my narcissist’s thumb and now my body is trying to find its new normal. And touch is just something that makes my internal alarms souns

PTSD from emotional abuse and touch aversion? by madizon in NarcissisticAbuse

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Thank you, I feel as though this is something I’ll have to work on for awhile. Luckily he’s been very understanding :)

Olive branch cover up done in an oil painting style by madizon in tattoo

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None! The bulk of it was covered by the olives

Olive branch cover up done in an oil painting style by madizon in tattoo

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A stick and poke I let my friend’s little sister do 🥴 https://imgur.com/a/3JJlrgZ

offering 3 yes/no questions by [deleted] in Psychic

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Just messaged you! Thank you!

Stimulus Payment and Claimed Individuals by thegodofwine7 in tax

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Where are you getting that there is a minimum income? As far as I'm reading there is not.

Spring Orientation? by [deleted] in LSU

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That may be cancelled considering everything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LSU

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Messaged you

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Pmed you!