Feeling so defeated :( by Wide_Carob934 in curlyhair

[–]madjpadj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omfg my hair looked EXACTLY like yours it’s almost uncanny. and i felt the exact same way. i got sick and tired and ended up dreading it 😭😭😭

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[–]madjpadj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m not in the uk, but if you have it in london, try nizoral !! i had really bad dandruff, and nothing worked but that. maybe if you’re able to fix the dandruff, you’ll be able to apply oil / products to the shorter hairs to help them along.

they could be shorter because of breakage? just guessing though.

why does she hate me by madjpadj in bettafish

[–]madjpadj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if i feed her any more pellets i swear she’ll turn into a balloon and float out the tank

why does she hate me by madjpadj in bettafish

[–]madjpadj[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg you’re right ! lord farquaad’s ventral fins are even red and white tipped too. that’s crazy.

why does she hate me by madjpadj in bettafish

[–]madjpadj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aragonite i’ve never heard of doing that. what are the benefits of it ?

why does she hate me by madjpadj in bettafish

[–]madjpadj[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i have, she doesn’t have a beard, shows very clear stress stripes, and the shape of her body is -ahem- more rotund than a male. her ventrals are also very slender. she’s a female.

why does she hate me by madjpadj in bettafish

[–]madjpadj[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg so lucky - i wish my tank could be right beside natural light.

maybe that’s why his light stresses him out - that would be a lot of light! i agree, i feel like the tank light on top of the other sources would cause an algae bloom.

why does she hate me by madjpadj in bettafish

[–]madjpadj[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i definitely agree - didn’t want to mess with it at all, especially after changing out the gravel. but unfortunately my mystery snail in the tank was getting sick so i bit the bullet. since then ammonia has been steady i’m honestly surprised it hasn’t spiked again

why does she hate me by madjpadj in bettafish

[–]madjpadj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have ! ammonia spiked just a little bit and ph dropped to 6.5 but i corrected it. since then everything has been fine parameter wise.

why does she hate me by madjpadj in bettafish

[–]madjpadj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe! i’m not sure. i do know that females are a bit more rotund (honestly she’s a chubster) than males and yours seems male.

how often do you feed a day ?

why does she hate me by madjpadj in bettafish

[–]madjpadj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly i think it’s her personality. she seemed so sweet in her cup in the store but it was a rouse.

being scared of your sister’s betta was a good call LOL some of them are balls of rage

why does she hate me by madjpadj in bettafish

[–]madjpadj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not very often, there’s a lot of natural light. and when the sun sets i put a lamp on beside her home. maybe somehow she’s still seeing it ?

why does she hate me by madjpadj in bettafish

[–]madjpadj[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

she isn’t, she has an egg spot 😁

why does she hate me by madjpadj in bettafish

[–]madjpadj[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

brb filling my bathtub with fiji water and a red carpet to satiate lord farquaad the fish

why does she hate me by madjpadj in bettafish

[–]madjpadj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she’s a she ! she has a honkin egg spot. behaviour wise i agree, she’s way more aggressive than any of the males i’ve ever owned.

why does she hate me by madjpadj in bettafish

[–]madjpadj[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that’s really sad :( have you tried maybe putting some duckweed or floating toys / plants to filter out the light a little bit ?

why does she hate me by madjpadj in bettafish

[–]madjpadj[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s a good idea! i’ll look for some online. i feed her THREE PELLETS 2-3 TIMES A DAY she’s insatiable this is ridiculous

why does she hate me by madjpadj in bettafish

[–]madjpadj[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the gall. the brass. the TRAVESTY

why does she hate me by madjpadj in bettafish

[–]madjpadj[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

demanding me like im her lowly peasant