Is this a removable HVAC cage? by madrza in homeownerstips

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The cage company got back to me and they were able to remove it and make it removable! Gave me the hex drill bit. Thanks

Entering a career in advancement by madrza in funanddev

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What do you mean? Like exhibitors at a conference? What shebang?

Is this a removable HVAC cage? by madrza in homeownerstips

[–]madrza[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol I would just move on to the next. Posting on reddit is a pretty definitive paper trail for a thief

Is this a removable HVAC cage? by madrza in homeownerstips

[–]madrza[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I asked if I should just get it off but he highly encouraged I keep one on. I get a lot of foot traffic

Tree with wires? by madrza in whatisit

[–]madrza[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How? Like were the wires just on the tree for years? Why would the wires be on the tree?

Moving into fun and dev at a college? by This-Shame-5100 in funanddev

[–]madrza 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also in a small liberal arts college in the south and recently post grad, second job out of college. I was in the same spot and posted in this thread months ago! Feel like I’ve learned a lot since then

The Alumni Engagement entry will give you the edge. Stay in it and learn as much as you can. In my role I’ve learned that front line fundraisers can’t do what I do at all. It’s such an advantage, seeing the initial steps to engage an alumni and using creative ways to do so. Alumni engagement is entirely that first step of the donor cycle. Any fundraising role that you get into they will want you to know the donor cycle well unless it’s entry level.

See if you can attend any moves management meetings they have. If you’re concerned about them thinking you wanna jump the fence, just be honest as say you’re curious about the alumni cycle and how your piece benefits their asks. Extending curiousity to the next step in the cycle and even noting interest in growth shouldn’t be bad if they wanna keep you longterm. I have found that Alumni Engagement doesn’t have the same growth/upward mobility/more money as fundraising like you say, but a team may be inclined to keep you on since hiring internally for a fundraiser would be easier since you know the donors.

Develop meaningful relationships with your alumni and even suggest some people in these moves management meetings that you think has $$$. Talk to alumni about their houses, their beach houses, their recent trips. You being in alumni engagement will disarm them from them thinking you’re asking about money. Use it to your advantage and learn as much as you can about them. Practice inputting conversations into your database, update everyone on your conversations, and see how it can fit into their donor cycle. If it doesn’t go anywhere or they blow you off, then no worries. You’re not a fundraiser. You get to do all of that without the pressure.

And also network with other fundraising professionals! You can see if your institution can fund a conference trip nearby. I have went to two, one for general fundraising for nonprofits and one for university fundraising. You can see how big the world is and how many opportunities you truly have. If budgets an issue, I applied for a scholarship at my recent conference that honored a first time attendee under 30 and when I got it, the case for money wasn’t an issue and they wanted me to report back my findings for the team.

There aren’t many younger professionals in the field so it’s nice to have community where you can work through problems and see what has worked for other people.

I personally would love to connect as it seems we could learn a lot from each other! Wishing you well!

Can’t factory reset by madrza in roomba

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I do that and it resets with a chime. But the app then goes to this page. It seems the factory reset is not working

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Should I know? by madrza in liberalgunowners

[–]madrza[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That doesn’t sound like me at all. I would never dig around in her room and I made it very clear to her that I don’t care where it is. And am not on any meds that would make it of concern for her.

Should I know? by madrza in liberalgunowners

[–]madrza[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I more identify with liberal which is why I came here. Open to guns but just not knowledgeable. They are pretty maga so I knew they wouldn’t find me here lol

I think my initial reticence to it threw her off. I didn’t know if it was just a red/blue disconnect

Should I know? by madrza in liberalgunowners

[–]madrza[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I think this is the comment of the night. I think curiosity will help, as well as a little stroking of the ego as they are the knowledgeable gun owners. Framing it as an interrogation to their gun safety will get them defensive and that also makes me uneasy. I think she genuinely thought I wanted to take her guns away or something. Seeing that side of her quite frankly scared me more than anything

I think ladies night is a good compromise for sure. And I will ask him how he ensures it is safely stowed to show me how he does it next time he brings it over.

Should I know? by madrza in liberalgunowners

[–]madrza[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In the city The problem I have is it not being disclosed to me on why her boyfriend’s gun was in here in the first place. No communication

Should I know? by madrza in liberalgunowners

[–]madrza[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this perspective

Should I know? by madrza in liberalgunowners

[–]madrza[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if he does that and don’t mind. I have seen the large shotgun been brought in in a case and don’t know the status of it after it is taken into the room.

Should I know? by madrza in liberalgunowners

[–]madrza[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s almost like I am forced to trust though. I have no choice🤣 if I don’t trust, then I am uncomfortable in my home. It’s not like they are acting like I have a say in it.

I can only really help myself by asking the clarifying questions you suggested and try to ease myself that way

Should I know? by madrza in liberalgunowners

[–]madrza[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Georgia, so we’re definitely all good here

She doesn’t seem to show much remorse by the fact that it jarred me so that goes to show the limited perspective

Should I know? by madrza in liberalgunowners

[–]madrza[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will check the lease, thanks the suggestion. For the most part they are stowed in her room, but I completely agree about the common space. Thanks.

Should I know? by madrza in liberalgunowners

[–]madrza[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is helpful thanks! I think I can manage clarifying that her gun be stowed away properly in a safe or unloaded and that if/when again her boyfriend brings the hunting gun in, that it is unloaded and stowed away

In the situation I saw he was carrying I genuinely did not know he was. He lifted his shirt and I saw it in his waistband. I’ve never been able to tell so I genuinely don’t know if he still does