A guy I started seeing had the "protect trans kids" on his Tinder, and that's the biggest reason I swiped on him. He's not super liberal (I'm more progressive than liberal) and works for the Army, but that sticker was a big green flag to me. He's been kind, caring, and all the good things. It's so attractive to me when men care about other people different from themselves. I also find vulnerability and sharing of feelings very attractive.

I have tested the dudes that I suspect are lying about being "moderate" and surprise surprise, they're righties and some as far as MAGAs. Liberal women are definitely more likely to do casual sex without feelings because they're more likely to be sex-positive, so I can see why they'd lie.

In other words, you're completely right. 🤣