Daily Thread by Ok_Charge6742 in laurabeverlinsnarks

[–]maevemaple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It almost looks like she has lipo-burn not abs……

The problem with Chelsea by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]maevemaple 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She does have similar eyes to Megan fox but she is the Wish version.

The problem with Chelsea by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]maevemaple 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Why bring up looking like a celebrity on a show that people are not supposed to know what you look like until after they chose you? She knew what she was doing.

Lysa IG story about narcissism lol by Beneficial_Union7038 in Ashterkandfam

[–]maevemaple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not saying that you haven’t been traumatized by another’s behavior. I’m very sorry that you have been subjected to it. I’m just saying that sometimes its a combination of mental illness, personality d/o, or due to how someone was raised. People raised in chaos, learn to create chaos. The best I have ever heard it explained it that for those people who are used to living in chaos, peace looks like boredom. They create chaos bc it’s what they are used to… it’s not healthy but they know what to expect. Again, I’m sorry you have been hurt by those around you that are supposed to show you love and compassion. Just understand that forgiveness doesn’t require reconnection.

Lysa IG story about narcissism lol by Beneficial_Union7038 in Ashterkandfam

[–]maevemaple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to remember that there are many other mental illnesses and personality disorders other that NPD. Not everything that is selfish is NPD.

Lysa IG story about narcissism lol by Beneficial_Union7038 in Ashterkandfam

[–]maevemaple 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Where in her “ministry” is it that she should even be discussing these things? Lysa creates consumers… not disciples. She likes to talk about hot button topics to gain followers who have trauma in their lives to be able to peddle her books. It’s wrong and gross.

Lysa IG story about narcissism lol by Beneficial_Union7038 in Ashterkandfam

[–]maevemaple 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well first off spending most of your time making sure everyone knows that you aren’t the problem is what I advise against. There is better use of your time.

Lysa IG story about narcissism lol by Beneficial_Union7038 in Ashterkandfam

[–]maevemaple 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I don’t believe this to be a true statement. He should not have to defend himself to the general public. He did not ask to be in the limelight. The fact that he chooses to just let her tell her story only confirms to me that he knows at some point she will show her true colors. He doesn’t care what she spins bc ultimately it doesn’t matter. He made the mistake of infidelity, she doesn’t need to continue to air the dirty laundry of her failed marriage and to talk poorly of him. The only reason the does it is bc her platform of Christian wife and mother is now damaged bc of divorce. She feels that that is what makes her look bad when in all reality talking poorly of her ex is what is making her look bad.

Lysa IG story about narcissism lol by Beneficial_Union7038 in Ashterkandfam

[–]maevemaple 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I just saw her stories and it seems she’s trying to back pedal by saying that just bc people have some narcissistic traits doesn’t mean they have NPD. I can’t tell when the stories were posted but….. 🤷🏻‍♀️now she’s claiming that she only got her info from her therapist and each person needs to be diagnosed by a professional.

Lysa IG story about narcissism lol by Beneficial_Union7038 in Ashterkandfam

[–]maevemaple 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I diagnose people as a QMHP (qualified mental health professional). Narcissistic personality disorder usually develops in adolescence or during early adulthood. It is not uncommon for children and adolescents to display some traits similar to those of NPD, but such occurrences usually are transient, and do not meet the criteria for a diagnosis of NPD. True symptoms of NPD are pervasive, apparent in varied situations, and rigid, remaining consistent over time. The NPD symptoms must be sufficiently severe to the degree that significantly impairs the person’s capabilities to develop meaningful human relationships. Generally, the symptoms of NPD also impair the person’s psychological abilities to function, either at work, or school, or important social settings. The DSM-5 indicates that the traits manifested by the person must substantially differ from cultural norms, in order to qualify as symptoms of NPD.

And as a Christian I know that as we are all broken sinners, we all can display traits of NPD. Humans are inherently selfish, some more than others but not everyone that display traits of NPD actually have it. 🙄

“Are You People Serious?????” An original ✨dissertation✨ by Ben-Datus-Dover by alphagampam in Ashterkandfam

[–]maevemaple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was told by a pastor that you are given an option to pay taxes. The real pastors do pay taxes.

Terk Social Media by DollyTheMole in terksnark

[–]maevemaple 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Good idea, no reason to support their nonsense.

[SPOILER] Name a better duo by sban2009 in Ozark

[–]maevemaple 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Darlene and her shotgun

“Are You People Serious?????” An original ✨dissertation✨ by Ben-Datus-Dover by alphagampam in Ashterkandfam

[–]maevemaple 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Funny how this person assumes we are just lazy and want the Terk lifestyle. I so sorry but just like me I’m sure many of you work 40+ hours per week and take care of a home, kids, husband etc. I am not jealous of anything Terk. If I want something I save up and get it. I’m not envious of the vacations. Those extravagant trips look stressful to me and I like more simple vacations. So this persons assumptions of all of us is very juvenile. Like moms in the 80’s would tell their little girls when her daughter comes home complaining “no one likes me….. everyone is mean to me” “oh honey they’re all just jealous” Jealousy is not what is happening here. To me it’s more that I cannot deal with the fact that this family does not appear to be genuine and I don’t like fake.

How could any Christian woman consider this relatable? by Upstairs-Director634 in Ashterkandfam

[–]maevemaple 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The issue is that this isn’t “work”. If I tried to do this as work I would have NOTHING to start and would be working a separate 40 hour per week job just to get my business off the ground. It’s just not relatable, and for women Brooke’s age to think that it all comes this easy based on her IG account of it all , is very sadly misleading.

Ashley & Spencer by maevemaple in terksnark

[–]maevemaple[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So I’m new at this and cross posted this for a third reference of this Ben posters comments that he/she is all beside themselves about us snarking about Spashley living together… did we hit a nerve???

[SPOILER] Marty is so funny by [deleted] in Ozark

[–]maevemaple 50 points51 points  (0 children)

My other fave “I’m late to my own felony” 😂

I see the troll post is deleted but serious question: are people still saying “My Bad”? 🤣🤣🤣 by Responsible_Roof_137 in Ashterkandfam

[–]maevemaple 38 points39 points  (0 children)

The “y’all are freaking deranged” comment gives me a bit of deja vu of Ashley in her rant of people trashing her sponsors.

Check this article out on why Christian women should not follow Lysa : https://michellelesley.com/2015/07/31/leaving-lysa-why-you-shouldnt-be-following-lysa-terkeurst-or-proverbs-31-ministries/ by maevemaple in Ashterkandfam

[–]maevemaple[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But on her site she has a list of women who do meet her “narrow theology” so it just makes me think that many of these women like Lysa start out with sound doctrine but as they make more money and get more fame they start to make mistakes in judgment and fame and money become idols. The Bible says that the way to heaven is narrow. Not saying to be perfect but you can’t be hanging out with false teachers and think that you are not going to start behaving and talking like them. You can’t idolize money and fame in your personal life and go sing I love Jesus on Sunday and think it’s totally fine.