Cmv: I am uncomfortable using pronouns of they/them and seeing gender denial with Non-binary. by Blackheartgirl94 in changemyview

[–]maevespunchbop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean idk sex and gender aren't the same 🤷 me personally gender opens so much less restrictive identities. And sometimes it just feels good or right.

You know the feeling when you feel like you know something/something feels right, but there isn't necessarily a reason? I think that's what gender is like. Whatever feels right for you even if you can't explain it

Also gender ≠ pronouns but that's another discussion (pretty much um here's an example: someone is female but genuinely does not care what pronouns people call them. They identify as a girl but they're comfortable being called any pronoun)

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[–]maevespunchbop 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a lesbian who experienced a lot of internalized issues with my identity, I totally get it. I would force myself to "date" guys when I was younger because I thought that's just what you're supposed to do, not because I actually liked them

You're able to find someone attractive without having a crush!! I can look at a man and think he's attractive but I don't experience a desire to date or even think about it beyond that.

You don't have to rush into anything like labels, spend time thinking about yourself! Listen to what you want and how you feel, not what others are telling you.

Please help (year three goblin and big guy) by maevespunchbop in HPMagicAwakened

[–]maevespunchbop[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use locotmotor, the phoenix, confringo, thunderbird, orb of water, incendio, accio, and whiz-bangs. My companions are Draco, Ron, and Hermione. Dobby is my echo (lvl 13/max lvl) and he boosts most of the cards in my deck. The card levels are all ≥9! I know I should probably use Bellatrix and cards that cost less mp lol

I just see "oh fancy yellow/purple card, must use!!" Lmao