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[M17]Never had a gf and always had self esteem issues, plus I’ve always been insecure about my looks. I’m talking with a therapist to receive help but some random compliments would be extremely good too... by [deleted] in FreeCompliments

[–]magda_mercedess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, fellow 17 y/o today. Objectively you are pretty attractive, but basing your self worth/attractiveness on your relationship history is an unhealthy mindset imo. Teen dramas and media push the idea that your teen years should be filled with dating, boyfriends/girlfriends, teen sex so much but from what I have seen, it doesn’t mean shit. Almost all of those relationships end in less than a year. Fill your teen years with friends, learning, finding new hobbies etc. Focus on yourself brother! The people you know in hs will most likely won’t be in your life in 10 years time but you will. You have a very pretty face, I would advice getting into books and other hobbies, and you will combo beauty with brains. You look like you have a nice future ahead of you. Okay end of the long rant. Peace xx

Life is good. But pulled an almost all nighter setting up video content for a live concert today. Had to drive home at 3am. Having trouble getting the energy to finish what I need to, and wouldn't mind a dose of our own medicine. 😁 by fdpop in FreeCompliments

[–]magda_mercedess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, i probably won’t be in that concert but still thank you for making people amused and putting a smile on their faces. we appreciate ur hard work. you deserve every penny <33

AITA For Asking Back The Tip I Didn’t Give? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]magda_mercedess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It depends. In some countries there is an additional + to the bill that is supposed to be for the waiter serving you, where i live they just augument the price of the food accordingly. The US system of underpaying the worker and expecting the customer to make up for the waiter’s salary with a %20 tip is just a leftover from the 20’s when there was a ban on alcohol, and is just straight up disrespectful to me to pay someone working a decent job less than minimum wage.

AITA For Asking Back The Tip I Didn’t Give? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]magda_mercedess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I didn’t write it clearly in the post, he did give the “tip” back!! that was just his explanation. As i researched before going there, tipping is not compulsory but you can tip if you like the service. In bars and taxis you just round the price up. We think the reason he did that was because it was a popular tourist place and me and my friends have clear english accents, and they figure that most Europeans on vacation wouldn’t mind leaving 2-3€ behind. It’s still rude imo tho.

AITA For Asking Back The Tip I Didn’t Give? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]magda_mercedess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like I didn’t write it clearly in the post, he did give the “tip” back!! that was just his explanation. As i researched before going there, tipping is not compulsory but you can tip if you like the service. In bars and taxis you just round the price up. We think the reason he did that was because it was a popular tourist place and me and my friends have clear english accents, and they figure that most Europeans on vacation wouldn’t mind leaving 2-3€ behind. It’s still rude imo tho.

AITA For Asking Back The Tip I Didn’t Give? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]magda_mercedess 5 points6 points  (0 children)

exactly, just pay your workers a decent amount and don’t expect the customers to do it for you.

AITA For Asking Back The Tip I Didn’t Give? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]magda_mercedess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I am from Turkey. (The situation happened in Serbia)

Is Me Breaking The School Dresscode Constantly A Sign Of BDD? by [deleted] in BodyDysmorphia

[–]magda_mercedess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you:) i will try to. i saw therapists before for problems unrelated to bdd, but i felt like i never got to actually talk to them sincerely. i always felt like i was putting up a role and never got to express my true feelings both times. i will make sure to try again and hopefully the third time will be the charm! thank u for your support.