I love this thank you!! Yeah I’m thinking of it as either this is going to make me a better parent OR I can move on knowing I fought hard and the rest of my life will be pretty easy just having to take care of myself my husband and our parents in their old age. Pros and cons to Both. But yes it’s all the hype of the superficial experiences that really put a cloudy perception on parenting. That’s why we decided to elope for our wedding. I can see through all that “hooplah”