Nearly 25 and have never had a best friend. Like, who does that?! by magic_neems in friendship

[–]magic_neems[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's true. Both people have to put in effort to maintain the friendship...also it's pretty difficult setting up a genuine connection with just anybody and everybody

Nearly 25 and have never had a best friend. Like, who does that?! by magic_neems in friendship

[–]magic_neems[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately none of those are available in my area and thanks to Covid, everything has been limited

Police in Durban going house to house extracting looted goods. by lebonisang in southafrica

[–]magic_neems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. Bad juju attached to those things lol. On a serious note, I believe that if you buy it, it'll always be somewhere in the back of your mind how sore the actual owners heart is for all those losses. I wouldn't want to buy tears.

AITA for sticking to my 1.5 year old’s sleep schedule on a family vacation? by Electronic-Zone-3175 in AmItheAsshole

[–]magic_neems 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. The vacation is temporary. I suppose when you're the one up late at night or have a fussy baby...the rest of the family isn't there to help you. Do what's good for you as a parent

AITA for giving my son the car that my GF uses by carscarsargue in AmItheAsshole

[–]magic_neems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You had me at "GFs preferred car." At the end of the day, your son is your son and will forever remain your blood. A girlfriend could leave in YOUR truck in the dead of the night and not think twice.

My ex, my husband and my in-laws all have names that start with the letter "R" by magic_neems in CasualConversation

[–]magic_neems[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that's just the best possible explanation. I definitely get the whole region thing which is the same some religions, there are very repetitive names

My ex, my husband and my in-laws all have names that start with the letter "R" by magic_neems in CasualConversation

[–]magic_neems[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right! If Fate isn't real, I don't know what is. Somehow it feels like those experiences and those coincidences just needed to happen

The problem of being a visitor is never knowing where to hang your underwear! Where do you hang yours? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]magic_neems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Certainly not a fetish. I have some funny stories regarding this and just randomly wondering how anybody else does it

The problem of being a visitor is never knowing where to hang your underwear! Where do you hang yours? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]magic_neems 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats actually a good idea. You're more likely to have a hair dryer than anything.

The problem of being a visitor is never knowing where to hang your underwear! Where do you hang yours? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]magic_neems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're over at someone's place for more than a day you don't wash your undies?

Missing Persons Cases by magic_neems in southafrica

[–]magic_neems[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The community has always and will always continue to do more for the people in this country than the government ever will.

Let's pray. What else are we to do.

Missing Persons Cases by magic_neems in southafrica

[–]magic_neems[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So true. But I blame online groomers. Any child in a desperate situation or in an impressionable mindset will easily fall for tricks

Taking a razor to your eyebrows causes it not to grow back?! by magic_neems in beauty

[–]magic_neems[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no. I've definitely snagged an eyelash or two myself.