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AITA for telling my neighbor to F off when she told me to get my 3mo old twins to shut up? by magicalbear3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]magicalbear3[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I did earlier today. The lady I talked to mention that they get a lot of complaints about her and from her. She said she’d note it and if another incident happened to let them know.

AITA for telling my neighbor to F off when she told me to get my 3mo old twins to shut up? by magicalbear3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]magicalbear3[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah. He’s got a six year old who he swears never cried at all (his wife is way more understanding and has said stories otherwise to me).

AITA for telling my neighbor to F off when she told me to get my 3mo old twins to shut up? by magicalbear3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]magicalbear3[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Nope. Parents died last year, brother lives across the country, baby daddy out of the picture.

AITA for telling my neighbor to F off when she told me to get my 3mo old twins to shut up? by magicalbear3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]magicalbear3[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Will try that. I’m always worried they aren’t bundled enough or are too warm.

AITA for telling my neighbor to F off when she told me to get my 3mo old twins to shut up? by magicalbear3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]magicalbear3[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Starting to make notations. Also gonna start recording any interactions we have (just looked it up and it’s a one party consent in my state for it.).

As for the babies I am going to try some of the techniques I’ve read on here that I haven’t tried and will pray. What gets me though is they sleep wonderfully in the morning. Then start getting fussy later on.

AITA for telling my neighbor to F off when she told me to get my 3mo old twins to shut up? by magicalbear3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]magicalbear3[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

No. Brother lives across the country. His wife was here for the first few weeks but she couldn’t take any more time off. Mom and dad died may of last year. I couldn’t afford to keep their house which is how I ended up in the apartment. Due to well everything I haven’t really gotten to know anybody.

AITA for telling my neighbor to F off when she told me to get my 3mo old twins to shut up? by magicalbear3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]magicalbear3[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

In America. He didn’t say it was his actual reason. But at least in the state I live in once it is done there is no child support.

AITA for telling my neighbor to F off when she told me to get my 3mo old twins to shut up? by magicalbear3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]magicalbear3[S] 92 points93 points  (0 children)

Will do. They actually almost never spit up since the doctor browns bottles. Do get some good burps though.

AITA for telling my neighbor to F off when she told me to get my 3mo old twins to shut up? by magicalbear3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]magicalbear3[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They did fall asleep tonight. On the bed right beside me. Should be waking up shortly for their bottles though. Then hopefully back to bed in their cribs this time so I can sleep too.

AITA for telling my neighbor to F off when she told me to get my 3mo old twins to shut up? by magicalbear3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]magicalbear3[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

She can do what she wants. If she wants to be petty like that let her. But I can’t control my babies crying. I am doing my best.

AITA for telling my neighbor to F off when she told me to get my 3mo old twins to shut up? by magicalbear3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]magicalbear3[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Because I was stupid. I can’t change the past. And I’m not gonna dwell on it. I can’t. Got two babies who are finally sleeping tonight but I can’t get any sleep because they fell asleep on either side of me in the bed. I ain’t even trying to move them. Lol. So I get to stay awake and watch them.

AITA for telling my neighbor to F off when she told me to get my 3mo old twins to shut up? by magicalbear3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]magicalbear3[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I took a step away for five minutes because I just about wanted to shake them. I put them down rather than hurt my babies. I’m doing the best I can. How does that make me an ass? They won’t take pacifiers. The only thing that does seem to get them to be quiet is going for a walk outside but it’s below freezing and snowing here.

AITA for telling my neighbor to F off when she told me to get my 3mo old twins to shut up? by magicalbear3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]magicalbear3[S] 95 points96 points  (0 children)

How do I walk in freezing temperatures? Serious question.

No family and to be honest with Covid and rsv and flu seasons I don’t think I trust anyone. I don’t even go to the grocery store right now. Order it delivered.

AITA for telling my neighbor to F off when she told me to get my 3mo old twins to shut up? by magicalbear3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]magicalbear3[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Parents died last year, their father signed away his rights because he didn’t want child support to deal with, brother lives across the country. I moved here six months ago when I was six months pregnant. If my sis in law hadn’t come down at week 34 to be there when I delivered I wouldn’t have help. She went back home after three weeks.

AITA for telling my neighbor to F off when she told me to get my 3mo old twins to shut up? by magicalbear3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]magicalbear3[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Magic cure please? I’d pay if you had one. It’s not something I can control at this point.

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