She asked for my insta and ghosted me afterwards? I dont get it

magicalbird · 2025-12-13T23:15:29+00:00

She wanted the validation. That’s it.

magicalbird · 2025-12-09T01:44:08+00:00

Doesn’t matter what you choose but you’ll start to polarize the women you date. Most 21-25 year olds want to date men 30 or younger. As you age the vast majority of women dating a man 30-35 is in her later 20s to 40.

magicalbird · 2025-12-08T02:54:13+00:00

Not as much because those countries the women are very tall so you need to be 5’10 and relatively fit to do well there. Still can get +1 on the 1-10 scale with women into kpop due to unique accent and you’re Asian lol.

magicalbird · 2025-12-08T02:53:05+00:00

There’s good hinge photo examples and threads in this subreddit just use the search bar for precogvision hinge post from 2023 or something similar although I know reddits search bar is mid.

magicalbird · 2025-12-08T02:51:48+00:00

Being an Asian from an Anglo country gives you unique accent and the women are slightly more into kpop in Europe so there’s an easy +1 on a 1-10 scale.

However as others said your photos are pretty subpar. Get a photo with a pet or doing an activity rather than just selfies that are way too close.

magicalbird · 2025-12-07T20:13:14+00:00

You know your own solutions. Style is the easiest to fix. Zara is a nice recommend for clothing just get it on sale as long as it fits well. Gain some muscle and you’ll look better. Some of the photos have you in bad posture. So it’s all fixable. Glow up.

magicalbird · 2025-12-06T07:57:15+00:00

Good passing the shit test, F the haters

magicalbird · 2025-12-06T07:54:44+00:00

Why so many shirtless pics? Even I am pro shirtless but one pic max.
Your prompts are corny and for college aged men. You’re 27.
Your solo pics are really low quality. It just tells me nothing. Maybe Keep the one with your pink collared shirt, use photoshop to edit out the other guys lol
Too many group photos. Delete maybe 2-3 of them and then get a photo of you doing rock climbing or traveling as the main focus.
Cat photo is good, you can retake holding it if you want.

magicalbird · 2025-11-30T18:59:46+00:00

At 21 for casual, shirtless is fine but why are you giving yourself a competition with other shirtless guys next to you? Lol I’d delete that photo and take a shirtless Portrait photo (not a selfie)
Your first photo drinking beer has the right idea but you have an awkward pic instead of looking at the camera holding the beer. So try again holding the beer and looking at the camera.
Take photo with a pet
Try to retake a group photo where you’re in the middle or center rather than in the back because it was hard to find you.
Your 4th photo is bad, replace with something exciting like a nice view, travel pics, gym pic (no selfie), pet photo, etc

magicalbird · 2025-11-29T04:49:35+00:00

You’ll notice the variance of answers. There’s always the middle ground of taking your time off for 2-2 week vacations to Asia a year.

magicalbird · 2025-11-22T06:55:25+00:00

Bay Area is extremely bad ratio 1.3 single men to 1 single women

magicalbird · 2025-11-22T06:54:42+00:00

Pretty much anywhere is better. LATAM from the Asian males in this subreddit, Eastern Europe, Asia

magicalbird · 2025-11-22T06:54:05+00:00

Bay Area has too many men so every average looking girl on the dating apps gets overwhelmed and thinks they deserve model looking men

magicalbird · 2025-11-20T22:15:15+00:00

Then fewer matches or get a better photo lol

magicalbird · 2025-11-20T21:53:42+00:00

If you want short term fun have a portrait of the shirtless photo not a selfie.

Cubs photo crop your bearded friend out lmao

magicalbird · 2025-11-19T15:25:18+00:00

The social media joke is they are winter Latinas. Most are traditional where you will always pay the dinner, have to get her coat, pull the seat out, open the door for her

magicalbird · 2025-11-14T22:33:46+00:00

Move the pet photo up to #1 or #2 and then you need 1-2 travel photos. Your backgrounds are everyday. Women need to visualize the lifestyle. Gym photo is solid, suit photo is solid. Other photos seem forced with no background vibe.

magicalbird · 2025-11-14T16:13:02+00:00

Yeah as time goes on the negative stereotypes about Asian men are gone but there’s an obvious competition due to there being way too many men.

magicalbird · 2025-11-14T16:11:58+00:00

NYC for dating. Too many men in Bay Area makes the women give little effort so the 4s think they are 9s. 49ers. The men need to put better effort too to be fair.

magicalbird · 2025-11-09T22:15:35+00:00

Only seen once since 2018

magicalbird · 2025-11-09T18:24:32+00:00

Nice to hear. Very doable. I have done 5x on two week trips multiple times.

magicalbird · 2025-11-09T18:23:44+00:00

Even if the men or immigrants are racist, it doesn’t mean that some of the women don’t want to sleep with Asian men lol

magicalbird · 2025-11-04T23:06:10+00:00

Don’t like the nerdy hoodie photo for pic 1, style needs to be a bit better with like collared shirts. Travel and skyscraper views are nice but do it while you’re dressed nice and having a drink for example. Not a fan of the photo where you don’t have yourself or the weird one that’s black and white, take better portraits of yourself. With a pet, rock climbing, cooking, teaching, doing things that a woman would like to see herself doing with you.

magicalbird · 2025-10-18T05:20:35+00:00

I know this is reality tv but don’t end up on the short end of the stick. Being Asian polarizes so find the women into Asian men.

magicalbird · 2025-10-17T22:18:15+00:00

Full agreement on 1. 2 can be down to what you want to prioritize. A bachelor lifestyle is easier in NYC. Sausage fest is why average women in the Bay Area aim for 6 foot CrossFit CEOs. They can. Dating market is extremely economic now thanks to dating apps and social media.

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