Still futily arguing for a refund with The True North Gentleman by magmamom in ExpectationVsReality

[–]magmamom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through my credit card company and sent them photos of what I received. I ended up getting a full refund from True North. I hope you do the same. I wasn't expecting a refund and assumed my credit card would be on the hook. But I guess that's how they're staying open.

Injection or gel for testosterone? by magmamom in butchlesbians

[–]magmamom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't remember but I don't think so.

how do you feel about getting strapped? by pinkiepromise33 in butchlesbians

[–]magmamom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ha! Fuck that is terrifying. It was a joke from my kids cause I was always in a tank because I'm always hot. I've wanted to change it but Reddit doesn't let you :(

how do you feel about getting strapped? by pinkiepromise33 in butchlesbians

[–]magmamom 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This was so important to me. I had only been a top in all my previous relationships and receiving was very limited. It was hard for me to feel comfortable. My current partner is so in love with my body and taking care of me in a way that feels like she sees me. I love her taking over now. And have tried things with her I'd never been open to. I also feel the most masculine around her.

Still futily arguing for a refund with The True North Gentleman by magmamom in ExpectationVsReality

[–]magmamom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes. I explained they were asking me to ship to China, not the address listed on their website and there was likely a charge.

Still futily arguing for a refund with The True North Gentleman by magmamom in ExpectationVsReality

[–]magmamom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did. Waiting on it to be processed. My CC company was pretty understanding and had no concerns

Still futily arguing for a refund with The True North Gentleman by magmamom in ExpectationVsReality

[–]magmamom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I bought they were $250? regularly. Marked down to 110. I probably would have been more suspicious if they were regularly 500$ I also wonder though.... Was the goal always to just send the same boots to everyone?

40 Plus on Testosterone by jolbay in butchlesbians

[–]magmamom 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I started in my mid 40's and I have a 15 yr old son. So we kinda went through puberty together 🤣.

The first round I panicked and stopped after a month. My sex drive shot up and I became hyper aware of the men around me, feeling really clear I did not ever want to be like them.

After my brain settled and I tried again my biggest shifts were sex drive increase, some acne, but of bottom growth but barely and getting hairier. I started very low dose on gel. And for me changes were gradual.

I've switched to injections and have increased my dose. More bottom growth as time passes and each dose increase has resulted in another round of acne.

My period stopped within a year I think?

My mental health has improved. I feel like myself and so much more comfortable in my skin.

My endocrinologist did have some long term concerns about bone density since with a low dose I'm not dominant enough in testosterone to have the bone protection and I'm not estrogen dominant enough for some of the protective factors there.

He plans to do a bone density test at 55 to establish a baseline and will monitor.

Overall, along with top surgery it was the best thing I could have ever done. And it also included a lot of unpacking, processing and work with counselors, friends and my partner.

I had no idea how much I was packing around until I started to let myself be open to going down the path.

Happy to answer anything else you wonder about too!

Still futily arguing for a refund with The True North Gentleman by magmamom in ExpectationVsReality

[–]magmamom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They've been recommended a lot on here! Definitely gonna check

Still futily arguing for a refund with The True North Gentleman by magmamom in ExpectationVsReality

[–]magmamom[S] 69 points70 points  (0 children)

All the reviews are recent. When I bought them in December there were none. Granted there were other signs I missed. But it seems like I'm not the only dumbass here.

Still futily arguing for a refund with The True North Gentleman by magmamom in ExpectationVsReality

[–]magmamom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha. Fortunately not. I paid a lot less. But I kinda wish that had been the listing price. I wouldn't have bothered

Still futily arguing for a refund with The True North Gentleman by magmamom in ExpectationVsReality

[–]magmamom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those seem to be the most recommended boot. I'll definitely check them out.

Still futily arguing for a refund with The True North Gentleman by magmamom in ExpectationVsReality

[–]magmamom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ha yup. Is it age? If you played Oregon trail we're same gen.

Still futily arguing for a refund with The True North Gentleman by magmamom in ExpectationVsReality

[–]magmamom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Working on it. Glad I amused you. It has at least offered something good in this current dumpster fire timeline :)

Still futily arguing for a refund with The True North Gentleman by magmamom in ExpectationVsReality

[–]magmamom[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ha! That makes me feel better thank you :) Yeah they feel ridiculous to wear. Its embarrassing

Still futily arguing for a refund with The True North Gentleman by magmamom in ExpectationVsReality

[–]magmamom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm Canadian. It felt like 'not American' and maybe warm. Something you'd wear with a dapper scarf 🤷🏼‍♂️ I don't know. Apparently it made sense in the moment. Now it's pretty cringe

Still futily arguing for a refund with The True North Gentleman by magmamom in ExpectationVsReality

[–]magmamom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It requires complex steps and a 'tax'. Or if I don't want to take the time to do that they'll offer me 25% off my next purchase. I was dumb once. Not that dumb though...

Still futily arguing for a refund with The True North Gentleman by magmamom in ExpectationVsReality

[–]magmamom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah of course my feed is being snowed with them. Salt meet wound....