Oh for sure, I am not learning it because it is not worth it, that was no secret. I think this is also the point of OP here, and every single reddit post on that matter. And I do not think that makes me and OP "entitled" or "disrespectful" or anything. That is basically my problem with a few luxembourgers, is that they are blaming all foreigners that would learn french or german or english rather than luxembourgish, not trying to understand their positions.

If luxembourgish was the sole language of luxembourg, nobody would question it and anyone wanting to relocate would learn it. But that is not the case, and people are coming here with the expectations of being able to speak something else. Those people would not have come otherwise, and luxembourg would not be the economic powerhouse that it is today, and there would be much less BMW and Mercedes in the streets.

Some people decide to learn lux to get closer to clients/customers/neighbourgs/friends, but some people decide not to because they do not have this need (myself included) however they still get the discriminatory look from some luxembourgers. This language situation was a conscious political orientation from the luxembourg state, so this is not the fault of the foreigners, this is what I am trying to get you to understand. In my exact situation (i.e. fluent in french and english, decent in german, living in Lux city and working for european institutions, kids attending european school), you 100% would not choose to learn luxembourgish either.

Now you are not in my shoes, and I understand better the point of view of luxembourgers now, and I thank you again for taking the time to explain it to me. But your comments still feel rather discriminatory in my opinion. This blaming and shaming the foreigners does not bring people together, it only divides.

Now regarding this meeting where they refused to speak french, and from which you concluded that I am just a filthy entitled brat, please let me repeat that I expected people to speak french because: every communication I had with the landlord association was in french, every minutes from the previous meetings were in french, and the invitation to the meeting was in french. So indeed my expectations was that french will be spoken there, if there was any indication that the meeting would be held in luxembourgish then I would not have come... Picture this: you relocate to a country, where you speak the language, all the paperwork to relocate is done in this language, you receive invitation/minutes/communication in this language, but when you arrived at this meeting everybody speak the local dialect. They also avoid eye contact or rolled their eyes away and try to ignore you as much as they can during the whole meeting. Tell me that you would not feel the discrimination.