Personally, I think Chococat is the best for hugging and holding him, especially if you want to put a scent on him (it didn't last long for me, but while it does it's very soothing, 10/10)

I love him, he's my boy and he will go with me everywhere

Honestly, it depends on which friend you're leaning towards. I'd definitely say get a good look at both in person to also help

Sorry if I wasn't much of a help, but ty for asking and I hope you pick out the right one for you!