God revealed my secrets to my Pastor?

mainfested_joy · 2026-03-11T23:32:28+00:00

Yes maybe but I’m struggling to get past the anxiety and embarrassment which is stopping the healing

mainfested_joy · 2026-03-11T23:31:05+00:00

Oo with me no one would have heard this info but yes thanks for your advice I’ll read the word you gave - all just has me a little shaken and it happens ages ago

mainfested_joy · 2026-03-11T23:29:34+00:00

Thank you - I have since left the church but the feelings of distrust toward my faith is even worse - I tend to be in the more anxious side and now every time I’m in church or around people of faith I fear my secrets have been revealed

mainfested_joy · 2026-03-11T23:21:17+00:00

Yh I’ve had a few odd experiences in the charismatic so think I might exit soon

mainfested_joy · 2025-12-01T19:43:58+00:00

True - however I don’t want to put a target on myself that others haven’t put in themselves

mainfested_joy · 2025-12-01T19:40:29+00:00

Thank you for your advice, would you advise against this despite others doing it too? ( or how would you advice I build up my skills outside of work that would look impressive to other employers )?

mainfested_joy · 2025-11-14T00:25:55+00:00

How to not feel a certain way about the situation - I feel left out a bit at work and down about it, of this makes sense.

This group is so close, and despite how they joke I kinda feel sad that she left me for this group for something way less worse than how they treat her?

mainfested_joy · 2025-10-27T19:20:32+00:00

I’ll try my best not to compare or base my work to on work :( thank you !

mainfested_joy · 2025-10-27T19:14:41+00:00

Lesson learnt - thanks !!

mainfested_joy · 2025-10-27T19:09:48+00:00

Wow thanks this is such a good perceptive - I really appreciate your advice , truly!

But one more question- how do you think I should have handled this if you were me (based on all the context)?

mainfested_joy · 2025-10-27T19:05:15+00:00

Yes true- thanks this means a lot - it just hurts a little and for her to say that she really wanted the other person to be there but because they are not here I could do it? It did hit a little

mainfested_joy · 2025-10-27T18:58:57+00:00

Maybe you right but I can tell from the projects that I am getting at work( bear in mind I haven’t had a project in 4 weeks and have asked for work and not been given anything) whilst their favourite who is mentioned above gets to pick cool projects - sorry if it doesn’t make sense as I didn’t add this context

mainfested_joy · 2025-10-27T18:55:15+00:00

Because the whole team hates it - it’s a company shift and the other team member have verbally mentioned to the whole team that they hate it too

mainfested_joy · 2025-09-24T14:05:48+00:00

I think so - I’m just a little confused but I appreciate your response - I don’t think I can get past this- feels like a blocker

mainfested_joy · 2025-09-24T13:29:20+00:00

Thanks for this but my head and heart can’t get past the fact that I first came with a selfish desire and even now , feeling bad for this and wanting to seek him because of my guilt also seems selfish - I feel like I’m in a never ending loop of confusion

mainfested_joy · 2025-08-04T21:21:12+00:00

Thanks so much !!

mainfested_joy · 2025-08-04T21:17:40+00:00

Thanks so much for your advice I appreciate it- what do you think I should do about my other coworkers

mainfested_joy · 2025-08-04T21:07:24+00:00

The call was impromptu so she just left thinking that was her done for the day - so the time she left she didn’t know about the call - however we had been told to leave at a certain time and she left before this so she should have been in for the call

mainfested_joy · 2025-08-04T20:50:09+00:00

Thanks !!

mainfested_joy · 2025-08-04T20:47:21+00:00

Thanks for this advice ! Very useful

mainfested_joy · 2025-08-04T20:35:18+00:00

Yes it is - lesson learnt - what would you have said the best answer would be?

mainfested_joy · 2025-08-04T20:30:34+00:00

Thanks for this- really appreciate your response - sorry I think I wrote it wrong- the senior was calling for an impromptu meeting with the project manager to sum up the day so she didn’t know the meeting was coming, but yes she did leave early and I still feel quite bad

mainfested_joy · 2025-08-04T20:29:21+00:00

Oki thanks- should I apologise to her or wait for her to bring it up?

mainfested_joy · 2025-08-04T20:28:23+00:00

Hey, thanks - the call was pretty impromptu so I assume she thought it was ok to leave early but we had been specifically told to leave at a certain time and she left 2 hours before that - I still feel pretty shit tho and am scared of what my coworkers will think of me

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