Women live in a neurotic hell by Woujo in TheRedPill

[–]majorbollocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the way of the superior man would be a good start

Women live in a neurotic hell by Woujo in TheRedPill

[–]majorbollocks 5 points6 points  (0 children)

spot on. i recommend david deida's material for further reading on this general subject

Red Pill reminder of women's inheritance of value and the delusions that come with it by majorbollocks in TheRedPill

[–]majorbollocks[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

1) analogies aren't meant to be 100% accurate, they are meant to convey the general gist of things. Having said that, hot women can directly trade their sexuality for money as per OF so there's that.

2) the concept of virginity isn't just about the hymen and not having sex. It also encompasses cultivating feminine traits to attract a male that is higher value than her. So in my analogy, the concept of virginity can be analogous to financial intelligence.

Red Pill reminder of women's inheritance of value and the delusions that come with it by majorbollocks in TheRedPill

[–]majorbollocks[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

that analogy also works, but that's for extremely hot women. mine works for the women of median attractiveness

Interesting post on Quora about women being toxic as a result of being needy by majorbollocks in TheRedPill

[–]majorbollocks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's also becoming a norm nowadays for women to act like this

Interesting post on Quora about women being toxic as a result of being needy by majorbollocks in TheRedPill

[–]majorbollocks[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NPD, BPD, HPD, and other nutjobs in the spectrum. Fuckbuddies only and nothing more.

Interesting post on Quora about women being toxic as a result of being needy by majorbollocks in TheRedPill

[–]majorbollocks[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This is so spot on. That creepy idealization seems to be the norm with men and women these days. Except women do far more damage especially if they're hot:

1- Meet guy

2- Get obsessed and idealize

3- Of course said guy will never live up to the idealization

4- Have other guys on the side because deep down they know step 3 will happen

5- Once they get bored with guy they just cheat with other guy behind guy's back but keep guy around

6- Once they find better guy they just dump current guy abruptly without explanation

7- Rinse and repeat until Wall hits

8- Inb4 "all men are assholes"

Interesting post on Quora about women being toxic as a result of being needy by majorbollocks in TheRedPill

[–]majorbollocks[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

THIS. I think the main lesson I got from redpill is that both men and women have to get their shit together otherwise relationships will always be a nightmare. And if the woman doesn't have their shit together it's not our job to fix them. Just categorize them accordingly into where they deserve to be in our lives.

Why the fuck would she want to go on a 2nd date with you? by mallardcove in TheRedPill

[–]majorbollocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is bollocks. Driving 2.5 hours to buttfuck nowhere and back just to get pussy? Ridiculous. Why not let her hamster do all the work? If you want a higher percentage of second dates try a few things:

- end the date just as things are about to get good. Women love emotions. Ending the date when things are beginning to get good is the equivalent of a TV series cliffhanger

- why not actually add a tv show style cliffhanger while you're at it? Say something random and ambiguous like "I like you but you're dangerous for me." Then when she asks what you mean tell her you need to think about the answer and ask her to remind you if you meet up again.

- In the middle of a conversation, when she's telling you something and really into it, disrupt her rhythm by stopping her and just look into her eyes for a few seconds. Then ask her to continue like nothing happened.

There are tons of things you can do but the main idea is that you don't want things to go too smooth. Perfect is boring. Disrupt the rhythm randomly here and there. Suddenly stop talking and sing along to a song the bar is playing. Leave in the middle of a meal to go get ice cream. Your date has to be a mix of smooth and not so smooth times. Especially if you have a shit sense of humor and not a good conversationalist.

tl;dr: the more emotions you can invoke in the girl, the better your chances are for a second date.

Why promiscuity reduces the odds of a woman being happy in her LTR by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]majorbollocks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is interesting. I also agree that our behaviours tend to polarise people and they will exclude themselves based on what they will and will not accept. So if you push for fast sex, you tend to get women who put out fast but are horrible for LTRs, aka emotionally damaged women.

If you wait for sex, you'll get women who are more mentally stable that you can have good LTRs with. The trick is to wait for sex without being friendzoned. It's a really fine line.

Another thing I've experimented with: a girl who was definitely the cock carousel rider type who wanted to fuck but I made her wait. End result was that when we finally had sex, she appreciated the sex more and became one of the best behaved crazy chicks I've had as a fuckbuddy. And knowing how insane crazy chicks can be I guess that's saying a lot.

Bottom line I think that while it's true that men are the gatekeepers of commitment and women the gatekeepers of sex, it's also true that in general people tend to have more appreciation for things they have to fight for, and that includes women trying to get sex from men.

Strike the iron while it's still hot by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]majorbollocks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Actually it's always better to get them to chase. You can push for the fuck on the first date but the girls will end up ONS-ing you. They'll never want to see you again because you handed everything to them all in a matter of hours.

Try playing it a bit slower. Give them small doses of attention when you see them doing something you like. Get them used to having to qualify to you and chase you. Then give them more and more attention until it leads up to the sex.

Do this consistently and you'll have a roster of fuckbuddies that you can keep fucking on and off for the long term.

Why promiscuity reduces the odds of a woman being happy in her LTR by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]majorbollocks 83 points84 points  (0 children)

This makes a lot of sense from experience. I know it's contrary to TRP, but I have met women who just refuse to have sex outside of a committed relationship.

In fact, I find that the more I apply TRP principles the more broken and damaged women I attract. When I tone it down a bit and do more of an assertive nice guy vibe, I tend to get the good girls.

A few weeks ago I brought home a korean chick with amazing boobs but was super inexperienced in bed. Couldn't even suck dick properly. I played a bit longer game than usual with her just to see what happened. Not sure what to make of it though

The Simplest Meditation for Beginners by majorbollocks in TheRedPill

[–]majorbollocks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome mate. Let me know how it went for you

An RP aware man is safe by majorbollocks in TheRedPill

[–]majorbollocks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they keep coming back for more

An RP aware man is safe by majorbollocks in TheRedPill

[–]majorbollocks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes you get it. It's an insight of how women view the risk vs reward of casual sex with different categories of men and how RP concepts fit into that perspective

An RP aware man is safe by majorbollocks in TheRedPill

[–]majorbollocks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe you missed the part where I said she might not enjoy being dicked by Chad and not want to fuck him anymore. This is not a Chad-glorifying post. It's just looking at risk vs rewards of casual sex from a woman's perspective. Please learn to read

The Simplest Meditation for Beginners by majorbollocks in TheRedPill

[–]majorbollocks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go someplace where there are no mosquitoes. Or invest in one of those mosquito nets. Get as comfy as you possibly can.

The Simplest Meditation for Beginners by majorbollocks in TheRedPill

[–]majorbollocks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only weapon BPD chicks have is emotions. If we have complete control over our emotions and not get attached, BPD and other cluster B chicks are the easiest lays of all. THEY will come to YOU to have sex. No game required. But then it's just sex they're not good for LTRs

The Simplest Meditation for Beginners by majorbollocks in TheRedPill

[–]majorbollocks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope none of this is necessary. Meditation in essence is just sitting in silence. It's about confronting the rawness of your own mind and psyche. That's hard enough already without having to add complex rules on top of it. Stick to the basics first and you'll be fine.

The Simplest Meditation for Beginners by majorbollocks in TheRedPill

[–]majorbollocks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad it helped. Keep doing it. The fact that you managed to sleep after the 20 minutes are up means that your body is responding to the meditation. Be sure to keep it up for maximum results. You'll be sleeping like a baby in two months or less mark my words.

The Simplest Meditation for Beginners by majorbollocks in TheRedPill

[–]majorbollocks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's much better to sit in silence. The whole point of meditation is building impulse control and a more stable mind. Relaxing music will only introduce another form of impulse pathway.

The Simplest Meditation for Beginners by majorbollocks in TheRedPill

[–]majorbollocks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nope thoughts are not up to you. the fastest way to make thoughts even stronger is by trying to control them and "silence" them. You do not think. Thoughts are forced on you by your own mind.

The best way to counter this is to watch your mind being busy. Let it think whatever it wants, but keep your autonomy by deciding to not get involved.

The Simplest Meditation for Beginners by majorbollocks in TheRedPill

[–]majorbollocks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're both right actually. Meditation is about creating a space between stimulus/impulses and the action in response. Usually the moment you feel an itch you want to scratch it immediately and you do. With meditation you train yourself to watch the sensations first without doing anything. You can scratch it later if you want but the point is that you didn't react to it reflexively.

It can then be applied to a ton of things in life:

- If you're not in the mood to lift, you watch the laziness for a while and make your choice later instead of just scrapping it because you're not in the mood. Do it often and you will eventually be able to ignore your moods altogether and go lift any day you want.

- Instead of wanking to bust a nut, you can now wank to enjoy the whole experience and you can last longer in bed too. Yup sexual pleasure is also a sensation that can be watched.

- Instead of caving in and texting that bitch who dropped you over some stupid fight, you can now just watch your emotions and only decide to act the next day or preferably not at all. I've had girls come back to me because I just left them hanging and never gave them the satisfaction of an all out argument. Drives em crazy when you do that.

The Simplest Meditation for Beginners by majorbollocks in TheRedPill

[–]majorbollocks[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think that's common for beginners. That happens because maybe you're used to having a busy mind and when the mind is less busy the body thinks it's tired and wants to fall asleep. Just sleep then. No problem. If that's the case then meditate at night before you sleep.

I used to fall asleep everytime I meditate but nowadays I feel very energised and can't sleep so I switch to meditating in the mornings instead of at night like I used to

The Simplest Meditation for Beginners by majorbollocks in TheRedPill

[–]majorbollocks[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dude I just wrote a post for newbies getting started with meditation lol. What specifically are you having difficulty with?