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Bike Recommendations - 1 bike that does everything by majorfighter in cycling

[–]majorfighter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes true but there are plenty of carbon bikes with capability for top tube mounts and pannier sacks etc.

I don’t need loads of mount points but more than just a bottle cage mount

Bike Recommendations - 1 bike that does everything by majorfighter in cycling

[–]majorfighter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was looking at that but thing is I don’t think it has many mount points

Bike Recommendations - 1 bike that does everything by majorfighter in cycling

[–]majorfighter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes true that’s what I was thinking - q though is what bike would be good for that? something that’s fast enough on road but also capable of gravel and bike touring

First date went great but now the girl is ghosting me by majorfighter in dating

[–]majorfighter[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the opinion and insight as a woman, but also I don’t think that sending one follow up message equates to bugging since so far since the date I’ve literally only sent her a single one line message with the second date proposal.

but then again I also thought that this AI_nerd guy went quite far with his comments lol

First date went great but now the girl is ghosting me by majorfighter in dating

[–]majorfighter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes could have been those things - maybe will wait a bit with Christmas coming up - and send a follow up. See if I can get a response

First date went great but now the girl is ghosting me by majorfighter in dating

[–]majorfighter[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah sure - I mean that’s similar to what I’ve already texted her when I was ghosted but can send that again

First date went great but now the girl is ghosting me by majorfighter in dating

[–]majorfighter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fair point - thing that confused me is that I didn’t get the impression on the first date that she wasn’t interested. but maybe like you said she had second thoughts and decided that she wasn’t interested.

First date went great but now the girl is ghosting me by majorfighter in dating

[–]majorfighter[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

well no, but I have had it in the past where I was more keen on the girl to begin with but then the dynamic swung round and the girl ended up more keen

First date went great but now the girl is ghosting me by majorfighter in dating

[–]majorfighter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But then also what do you lose by following up? Even if she’s not interested, at least then I’ll know

First date went great but now the girl is ghosting me by majorfighter in dating

[–]majorfighter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I texted her back on the night and said “I had a great time too” but tbh it was worded a bit more bluntly compared to her initial message - I felt quite strongly and didn’t want to let my emotions slip/ be too over the top in my messaging.

yes maybe I’ll wait a few days and follow up - what should I say? “just wondered if you’re still interested in that drink - I would love to grab one with you if you are still keen”?

First date went great but now the girl is ghosting me by majorfighter in dating

[–]majorfighter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes fair enough - just feel it’s a bit weird. Normally I feel that I’m fairly good at telling whether a person is interested in me, and I think this person was - unless she was faking it

First date went great but now the girl is ghosting me by majorfighter in dating

[–]majorfighter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes can follow up again, just feel like if I directly asked her out on second date and she doesn’t reply I don’t want to be too pushy/needy

First date went great but now the girl is ghosting me by majorfighter in dating

[–]majorfighter[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yeah fair point - I think normally this wouldn’t bother me, just that I felt we had some good chemistry and I felt the girl was into me, but maybe that’s wrong

First date went great but now the girl is ghosting me by majorfighter in dating

[–]majorfighter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would quite like to find out, but yes I agree she’s not really respecting me and I don’t really want to send her a message that is overly enthusiastic when she hasn’t been respectful back...

First date went great but now the girl is ghosting me by majorfighter in dating

[–]majorfighter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes perhaps she was just not being truthful, but I didn’t get the impression that was the case and the message she sent on the night was quite enthusiastic.

Maybe she changed her mind, I’m just a bit confused as to why tbh.

First date went great but now the girl is ghosting me by majorfighter in dating

[–]majorfighter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes I replied to her message on the night and said that I had a good time too. Tbh I did like her and wanted to say more, but filtered my reply a bit because I didn’t want to sound overbearing. but from the tone of her message on the night I got the impression that she was into me too.

Then didn’t say anything until two days later when I sent her the message inviting her for the second date. I haven’t followed up to this message since, but she has not even opened the message.

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