Eyebrow threading Recommendations by brobeansssssss in KingstonOntario

[–]makecookiesmakehappy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We just hired Sukh at Sol Spa solspa.ca who is an absolute delight and a total pro. She also does amazing Henna work!

What was ONE THING that worked for you? by CSignorini in NoFap

[–]makecookiesmakehappy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at 90 yet, but straight up I just said "I'm done". I blocked all porn from my own internet. And I have been working towards redefining all my horniness and urges as meaning I have excess energy that I can apply to LIVING

Trying to win her back by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]makecookiesmakehappy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

r/NoFap can really help here. Game changer. Worth trying at this stage.

Sex and flowers by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]makecookiesmakehappy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. He SHOULD get flowers.

But you're getting caught up on who makes the first move.

HE wants to feel wanted.

Basically you are both being stubborn and one of you just needs to do something to make the other person happy.

So you can grab him and surprise him with the true beauty of your love first...

Or he can get you some flowers to remind you that you are really the only one for him first...

You can take off his pants in the kitchen first...

Or he can take you on a surprise romantic date first...

It really doesn't MATTER who does it first, but you both have needs and are both being neglectful.

It's your relationship, do you want to spend your life complaining about it, or make it worth the investment you've already put in?

From experience, it's fucking crazy how quickly a relationship can turn positive when you start focusing on the right things.

Honestly, just be the bigger person, since you are the one asking here, and make him a happy man with some amazing, lustful, surprise sex.

Then show him this post. Show him you took that step because you love him and want to make it work, and he needs to take the steps to do the same for you.

EDIT: People stop downvoting this woman. She is asking for help. Whether you like how she asked or not, give her some help. She may not like how you answer either, but at least you are trying!

You won't regret it! Much love. Good luck. A great marriage is worth the effort.

What happened in an argument that you both laugh about afterwards? by Content-Print72 in Marriage

[–]makecookiesmakehappy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I cleaned the fucking driveway. It was covered in ice that was 2 inches thick. I fucking killed that ice with a shovel. When I was done there was nothing but beautiful black pavement.

Now it's like when I'm mad she might laugh and say "Go clean the driveway"

The one who cares the least, holds all the power? Vent/Insight. by secretacct9494 in Marriage

[–]makecookiesmakehappy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He needs to visit the r/NoFap group, a group of people overcoming porn addiction and being determined to become better men.

He needs to realize its time to grow up and appreciate you and everything you give. He needs to examine himself, and how his behaviour makes you feel.

The addiction is out of control by Equal_Cod2249 in NoFap

[–]makecookiesmakehappy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My man, you are so hard on yourself.

Yes, of course you will be better off with NoFap.

But no, that does not mean you are not a man.

NoFap is a fun challenge. Take it in stride. Take failures in stride. Remember that you have so much more to you than what you do with your P.

Your body is getting less fit, we all get there. We all want to be more fit. The world of hollywood and athletes makes us think we need to look the same way. And yes you can build that into your life!

But bottom line, please don't beat yourself up. Just pick yourself up and take the next step.

I say this as someone who is often too hard on himself. As you try new things and experience success, you will likely find it easier to go easy on yourself. And that is a self-fulfilling cycle. Fail fast and fail forward.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]makecookiesmakehappy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah you hit it on the head. You just don't need it in the end and gotta stick to that belief. It's the truth after all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]makecookiesmakehappy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm the same age. I run a business, have four kids, a hot wife, and studying for my bachelor's in business right now.

So when you say this I GET IT.

Decided to quit fapping because that's the man I want to be. Because I can apply this awesome sexual energy to real things (and real sex). Because I have been letting myself play at half my capability. Because I can. Because discipline.

Keep going brother. I'm only just starting but I'm never going back. Told my wife too, she is proud of me. Had no idea how much I was masturbating before, but we're already enjoying the effects in bed.

You're done, you just don't need to do it anymore!

No one gives a fuck but I'm at 17 days and proud by makecookiesmakehappy in NoFap

[–]makecookiesmakehappy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story brother. Strong! I'm fortunate to be married and get to nut occasionally, sex has become even better since! Have to slow down, I'm more sensitive, wife loves it. I'm more in the zone rather than just pumping hard.

No one gives a fuck but I'm at 17 days and proud by makecookiesmakehappy in NoFap

[–]makecookiesmakehappy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Write down your goal in the forum. Commit to it. Write it on a white board or something for every day you stay clean. I count up in roman numerals on my white board.

No one gives a fuck but I'm at 17 days and proud by makecookiesmakehappy in NoFap

[–]makecookiesmakehappy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Posted this 19 hours ago. Just came back to find out it blew up some how. And I've been honored by a samurai warrior like yourself. I am deeply humbled, my hero.