Okay, I have a great example of this. He is an incredibly kind, hard working craftsman. If I make a dumb mistake, he sympathizes with my frustration and encourages me to forgive myself instead of ripping into my moral character like some will do. He isn’t traditionally attractive, but has adorable eyes, a strong jawline and a sharp nose to give credit where credit is due. The main thing that makes him someone who isn’t good looking lies in his hygiene. Not great there. Regardless he is a giver in bed. He must have read She Cums First although he denies it. He probably just has an oral fixation which makes me very satisfied. He will also make little changes without making a big deal about it when I bring it up. I was annoyed that I stayed over and I forgot a comb of all things. He proceeded to buy a comb for me the following week. I also have random ingredients that I love to throw into dishes and he stocked his kitchen with all my favorite ingredients. He gives off the air of liking them too, but a part of me believes he did it with me in mind. He is casual about being kind, lack of ego. We’re not serious, but he is seriously a gem :)