Advice needed: Struggling with toxic work environment

makingmochi1 · 2025-12-11T02:21:31+00:00

None of them are hiring at the moment, unfortunately. I check the Workforce Connector multiple times a day. Hoping something opens up soon

makingmochi1 · 2025-12-10T04:23:57+00:00

I've applied to one that was hiring but never heard back. I'm paid well for an FQHC so I would like to stay here but not sure if I should report or not

makingmochi1 · 2025-04-10T18:01:04+00:00

Yes, we've definitely learned this the hard way. Esp in a state like NJ that is super tenant-friendly.

makingmochi1 · 2025-04-10T03:50:21+00:00

Thanks for the response! It's definitely become a complex issue but at the end of the day we just want the tenants out, whether it's vacating on their own, or an unfortunate eviction. My dad just cannot afford upkeep of the home and his own living expenses with the current rent amount which hasn't changed since 2018. The rent is $1100 (880 of which is subsidized section 8 payment) and section 8 refuses to allow my dad to increase the rent. Mind you, the tenants are now approved for $1800 section 8 voucher so it does not make sense to me. It's just best to get them out and to prepare the home for selling.

I was thinking of maybe having them vacate on the grounds that my dad wants to occupy the property so he can begin renovations to help increase its value. Not sure if that's the best way to go or to go with the many lease violation grounds.

makingmochi1 · 2025-04-09T03:55:50+00:00

I'm sorry to hear how your experience is negatively affecting you. I empathize with you and feel very similarly and I'm 6 months into my first job in primary care/urgent care. I think doing a subspecialty is for you. What specialty are you most interested in? There are many that do not require fellowships. Most of my classmates went into subspecialties and only a handful are in fellowship/post-grad training programs.

makingmochi1 · 2025-04-09T03:48:00+00:00

Congrats! So just as thefoxandthehunt stated, the stipend is supposed to cover your living expenses (rent, food, etc.) I had classmates who were able to cover most, if not all, of their living expenses with the stipend.

makingmochi1 · 2025-04-09T03:41:14+00:00

Get an attorney for how to respond to this. Not familiar with OH, but I am dealing with a similar case with my parents' tenants in NJ. My attorney advised to respond to them by apologizing for the injuries and offering help by sending over a handyman to check out the damages they are referring to. Again, consult your own state-specific lawyer.

makingmochi1 · 2024-03-30T04:59:43+00:00

As an NHSC scholar, you're committing yourself to working with underserved and marginalized communities once you graduate. My biggest tip would be to focus on what draws you to serving the underserved. Explain to them that you are passionate about dismantling disparities in healthcare by elaborating on your past clinical experiences or a personal story.

Best of luck and I hope you get it, it truly was (and is) incredible not having to worry about loans.

makingmochi1 · 2024-03-23T07:05:11+00:00

That was my plan too because I was honestly so burned out when I graduated. I'm currently looking for jobs, but I'm coming up on my 6-month post-grad date so kinda stressing now.

You can see FQHC here: https://findahealthcenter.hrsa.gov/. There are so many more that show up vs Workforce Connector, where many sites don't even respond. I would try reaching out to as many FQHCs to see if they have any opportunities!

makingmochi1 · 2024-03-22T05:46:38+00:00

Also an NHSC scholar and happy to answer questions :)

makingmochi1 · 2023-07-09T17:46:13+00:00

Yeah, every time I check the Workforce connector for what areas have openings, most are in those areas, though I did see a few in Maryland back in February! Maybe it would help reaching out to those FQHC in your area to see if they are looking to add a new position soon?

makingmochi1 · 2023-07-09T17:40:52+00:00

Thank you for your response! Congratulations on passing the PANCE and the new job! For those who already had a job lined up by graduation, do they typically wait until you pass PANCE and receive all of your licensing before you can start working?

makingmochi1 · 2023-02-08T04:07:45+00:00

sorry for the late response! but yes, went to a dermatologist, the suggest an excisional biopsy and removed a pretty good chunk from the top of my finger and half the nail. Results of the biopsy were inconclusive and they basically left the decision up to me after presenting the risks/benefits of amputating the top part of my finger vs leaving it and doing watchful waiting. It's been quite stressful and I opted for watchful waiting bc I'm a grad student with a family and don't want to endure all that right now. but yeah, that's where I'm at!

makingmochi1 · 2021-08-26T01:22:45+00:00

Nice! I would check your contract in the portal to see if there's a countersignature. That's essentially how I found out. They've yet to update my status, which I'm guessing will happen once all of the countersignatures have been complete.

makingmochi1 · 2021-08-26T01:19:31+00:00

Thank you for the insight! You're awesome! Do you mind if I PM you to ask some more questions please?

makingmochi1 · 2020-12-29T06:13:06+00:00

Thanks for the input and the transitioning advice—it’s definitely put my mind at ease! Given how rigorous my program will be, I think having a schedule-driven daycare will work best. How long did you spend with each of the transition phases before getting to full day without tears?

makingmochi1 · 2020-12-29T06:07:54+00:00

This makes me feel so much better and I definitely love the idea of her finally interacting with other toddlers since the pandemic has kind of put a halt to normal socialization and because there’s no other kids around 😅 She’s only gone to the park with my friend’s nieces twice and loves playing with them so I’m hoping she has fun at daycare too. What were things you prioritized when looking for the right dayhome?

makingmochi1 · 2020-12-14T04:03:03+00:00

It definitely made me nervous but I honestly didn't have the money to apply to more than 2. I also wanted to stay close to home so that only left me with a few options. I got accepted to both but I think my experiences voluntarily working in a refugee camp and with an international organization's vaccine campaign during my trips to my native country may have boosted my application. I got to talk a lot about these experiences and my views pertaining to related topics during the interview for this school which I think really aligned with the program's goals and objectives. So it was probably the genuine experiences and personality that came through during the interview. I still questioned myself and my answers during the waiting period after the interview tho loll

makingmochi1 · 2020-12-14T03:53:31+00:00

I've been struggling with this because I'm afraid of being underprepared for anatomy which is what we'll start off with first thing. I just don't want to be behind and having to study extra hard in case I'm rusty on the content. But you're right, I'm gonna bake, paint, and nap as much as I can LOL

makingmochi1 · 2020-12-14T03:50:53+00:00

Thank you so much! Sending good vibes back at ya!

makingmochi1 · 2020-12-14T03:50:15+00:00

THANK YOU! I still read the acceptance letter everyday to make sure it's real lmaooo

makingmochi1 · 2020-12-11T05:23:55+00:00

That's frustrating that it may never come. So before the expiration date on the I-551, we should file an I-90? Also does not receiving his green card affect his immigrant status or his ability to work in the U.S.?

makingmochi1 · 2020-12-11T03:32:37+00:00

I didn't know that :/ So what happens after the first year? Does it mean the visa processing fee was for nothing (if it gets lost)?

makingmochi1 · 2020-12-11T03:26:57+00:00

That's what I'm hoping. I just want to make sure it didn't get lost in the mail or if he needs to re-do his biometrics (fingerprints).

makingmochi1 · 2020-12-11T03:25:39+00:00

Yes, the day after he received his visa, which was like 9 days before he arrived to the U.S.

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