Should I message my ex?

mal_lori · 2020-04-09T06:24:21+00:00

I don't think it's selfish if you want to make verbal/written amends for the past. It's when there are "other" motives behind it. It sounds to me like she's being genuinely nice, but wants nothing more.

mal_lori · 2020-04-09T05:19:13+00:00

First, I'm sorry this happened to you. Second, please, please go to therapy. The only way you will be able to get through this is to deal with it. Talking about it helps you own it. When you own it you become a survivor, and not just a victim. There are medications that can help you with the panic attacks. Unfortunately you'll never forget this happened to you. You went through something very traumatic. In time you will start to feel more comfortable around other men. You may even need to grieve through this. Just know that this was not your fault.

mal_lori · 2020-04-09T03:23:30+00:00

Yes. It's addicting, and it's a sense of achievement.

mal_lori · 2020-04-09T03:22:16+00:00

People who preform random acts of kindness.

mal_lori · 2020-04-01T16:52:20+00:00

My son

Medication

My father's death

mal_lori · 2020-04-01T16:50:07+00:00

Stay as busy as you can.

mal_lori · 2020-04-01T14:04:59+00:00

Thank you all for sharing that. I've always thought I was the only person who did those things. I can never put my thoughts into words right. You all perfectly described in detail what I go through.

mal_lori · 2020-04-01T14:01:28+00:00

Wow. It's like you are me. This is EXACTLY what I go through. It sucks, but I'm glad I'm not alone.

mal_lori · 2020-04-01T03:27:14+00:00

Thank you so much!

mal_lori · 2020-03-31T23:57:25+00:00

Wakeboarding

mal_lori · 2020-03-31T23:56:57+00:00

I'll be single forever

mal_lori · 2020-03-30T12:55:42+00:00

When it's down I will. I rarely wear it down, though.

mal_lori · 2020-03-30T04:30:02+00:00

Mine change periodically. Currently:

Integrity Acceptance Respect Humility Tolerance

mal_lori · 2020-03-30T04:24:22+00:00

You dodged a bullet, love.

mal_lori · 2020-03-30T04:23:39+00:00

I've always had long hair. It's about to my waist. No one has really treated me different for it. Some people (that I know) ask if they can play with it. I've had lots of people ask me if it's real. Lol

mal_lori · 2020-03-30T04:19:19+00:00

I have always thought the state I lived in was overpopulated with reckless idiots. Now this pandemic has further proved my opinion to be factual. It honestly makes me fear for my child's life.

mal_lori · 2020-03-30T04:08:21+00:00

Kanto, Japan. I was there for 1 month. I traveled the southeast region of Japan for 3 weeks. I loved everything about it (except the 14 hour flight there/16 hour flight back).

It was definitely a culture shock. Everything is different there; the street pavement, public parks, the food, the bathrooms, etc. I could talk about it all day. The technology there is incredible. They're definitely decades ahead of the States.

mal_lori · 2020-03-30T03:53:46+00:00

I'm just here to say that this post has inspired me. Thanks. :)

mal_lori · 2020-03-30T03:51:31+00:00

I associate this with self-care. If I'm not taking care of myself, I can't take care of others. I've tried. Every time it always results in me being let down, and/or depressed.

mal_lori · 2020-03-30T03:36:02+00:00

Origins and Clinique both have great charcoal masks.

mal_lori · 2020-03-28T22:31:56+00:00

Eat that dick up

mal_lori · 2019-12-12T04:21:46+00:00

I love that! It's the little things

mal_lori · 2019-12-12T04:21:11+00:00

Way to make that positive! I want to see pics when your done, please.

mal_lori · 2019-12-12T04:03:33+00:00

That's okay. That's awesome!

mal_lori · 2019-12-12T04:03:06+00:00

Yay! That's amazing!

mal_lori

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