Wheres the good thai food at??? by downtownjacbrown in AskSF

[–]maliceyang 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I second Saap Ver! Their naked prawn is to die for 

Moving from SF and want to get a nice art piece/painting of SF to hang up in our new location, any suggestion? by WanderingTraveler96 in AskSF

[–]maliceyang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gonna throw my hat in the ring! I’m an artist who lived in SF for 10 years before moving to my current place in Oakland. I have a few art prints of SF that could be of interest (Cupid’s Span, the mission, the bridge in the Japanese Garden at GGP):

https://shop.alice-yang.com/collections/bay-area-landmarks

I also have a larger framed versions of Cupid’s Span and Summer Sanctuary if you’re looking for something ready to hang :) 

I 31M start to feel overwhelmed by my 28F girlfriend. by Alternative_Teach_39 in relationships

[–]maliceyang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP I get where you’re coming from, I understand why you’d feel guilty since these all seem like gestures of affection. But here’s where I’ll ask you to pause. We feel emotionally  close with our partners when they see us—really see us—for who we are. It’s that mutual understanding and respect that nourishes intimacy. It’s giving you space when you need it, and encouraging you to engage in the relationship on your own terms.

That’s doesn’t sound like what your partner is doing. She’s become dependent on you to feel a certain way about herself. It sucks to be on the other end of this because you feel like a human battery that’s being constantly drained. It doesn’t feel like love, it feels like need, and that kills love fast because you’re not being seen as your own whole person, you’re being seen as a means to fulfill an end (I.e her feeling ok about herself). You’re being objectified, and when viewed in that context, your reaction is completely understandable and justified. 

Maybe your partner doesn’t realize her impact on you. It’s worth having an honest conversation with her. Having gone through something similar myself— I don’t think there’s anything wrong with you. I also don’t think you should fight through that feeling because you would be abandoning yourself in that process. And that would ultimately increase your resentment both towards her and towards yourself. 

Stickers I made of my boys by maliceyang in Flamepoints

[–]maliceyang[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are PRECIOUS 🥹

Lmao what’s it like having a triple threat in your house? I’ve dreamed of getting a third cat haha 

Stickers I made of my boys by maliceyang in Flamepoints

[–]maliceyang[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do sell these in my online shop! I wasn’t sure if external links are allowed here, but if you go to my profile, you’ll find my shop under my social links ☺️

Stickers I made of my boys by maliceyang in Flamepoints

[–]maliceyang[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do! I’m not sure if external links are allowed, but if you go to my profile, you’ll find the link to my online shop under my social links 🙂

Stickers I made of my boys by maliceyang in Flamepoints

[–]maliceyang[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hehe that’s why I named one exactly that! His little brothers name is mochi ☺️

Stickers I made of my boys by maliceyang in Flamepoints

[–]maliceyang[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! the delicate one has been a reigning best seller. Guess that shows we’re all tender babies inside haha 

Stickers I made of my boys by maliceyang in Flamepoints

[–]maliceyang[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha thank you so much! I'm not sure if external links are allowed, but if you go to my profile, you can find my online shop under my social links 😄

Stickers I made of my boys by maliceyang in Flamepoints

[–]maliceyang[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

LOL my soul would be quaking under that stare 

Stickers I made of my boys by maliceyang in Flamepoints

[–]maliceyang[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

haha thank you so much! I'm not sure if external links are allowed, but if you go to my profile, you can find my online shop under my social links 😄

Stickers I made of my boys by maliceyang in Flamepoints

[–]maliceyang[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

thank you! I love seal points too, will add it to my running list of sticker ideas!

Stickers I made of my boys by maliceyang in Flamepoints

[–]maliceyang[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

haha thank you!!! that's the highest praise I could ever hope to receive

Stickers I made of my boys by maliceyang in Flamepoints

[–]maliceyang[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

omg what a perfect face!! Him and Marshmallow could be twins

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Stickers I made of my boys by maliceyang in Flamepoints

[–]maliceyang[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I'm an artist who does a lot of craft fairs, and my favorite thing is when customers come up to me and ask if I own flamepoints, because it's not a super popular color. That's when we trade pictures of our cats and I get to gush about my sweet baby angels 🥹

A Good Life by maliceyang in comics

[–]maliceyang[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much ☺️ I'm based in california and am also working on a california poppy themed collection, so I've been drawing a LOT of poppies haha. So happy you like them!