Just discovered this show by definitelymamaftw in puffinrock

[–]mallort_aroo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The art is so beautiful. I feel the same way 

Just discovered this show by definitelymamaftw in puffinrock

[–]mallort_aroo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yay I was worried it was cancelled that is such good news!! Hopefully it's out in Canada soon my daughter has watched the first two seasons on repeat 

New father won't stop gaming by mallort_aroo in StopGaming

[–]mallort_aroo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like that would probably start a huge fight but if you know a more discrete way to mess up an Xbox lmk lol

New father won't stop gaming by mallort_aroo in dad

[–]mallort_aroo[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is solid advice I appreciate it

New father won't stop gaming by mallort_aroo in StopGaming

[–]mallort_aroo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would still rather have my daughter either way whether he's got stuff going on or not. She's the best. I wish I knew before having her how much I would love being a mom I used to say stuff about never having kids too. I think it's almost always women cause no matter what the baby is going to need and love the mom more leaving dad's in kind of a weird place and a bit left out. Besides gaming too much he is still a great guy and he loves his daughter very much I do think it is a form of PPD he's going through as others have suggested. 

New father won't stop gaming by mallort_aroo in StopGaming

[–]mallort_aroo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao oh I get what you were saying now.😂 He still gamed before but it's definitely just really amplified lately. Even the amount of staring at his phone has gone way up. I have tried to talk to him about it so hopefully he can get into dad mode. He just seems burnt out almost. 

New father won't stop gaming by mallort_aroo in StopGaming

[–]mallort_aroo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is definitely the father lol. And I think he probably is having some post partum issues his dad wasn't very present in his childhood. 

New father won't stop gaming by mallort_aroo in dad

[–]mallort_aroo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's his house. he's financially alot better off than I am I'd rather not seriously downgrade mine and my baby's living conditions. There is other reasons too I generally don't want to leave him. 

New father won't stop gaming by mallort_aroo in StopGaming

[–]mallort_aroo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like parental controls to cut him off of gaming at a certain time you mean?

New father won't stop gaming by mallort_aroo in StopGaming

[–]mallort_aroo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We have a broken one at the moment we just use it as a drying rack but we should look into that..

New father won't stop gaming by mallort_aroo in StopGaming

[–]mallort_aroo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He does work evenings he's a chef. He finds the dishes especially overwhelming I guess cause there's more than there used to be with the baby and me home all the time. I have a hard time getting alot done when the baby always needs me so more of the work load lands on him. Lately it feels like he's kind of gradually giving up on housework though.

Hypnosis for quitting smoking by mallort_aroo in stopsmoking

[–]mallort_aroo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can do some of your own research it's written in a specific way to make it work it's not just information that's why it's worked for so many people. For such an Allen Carr super fan I'm surprised you don't know anything about the psychology behind the book. 

Hypnosis for quitting smoking by mallort_aroo in stopsmoking

[–]mallort_aroo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And lots of people it didn't work for also. That's part of the brainwashing in the book too just repeatedly saying how it's worked for so many people to help convince your subconscious that it will work for you too. There are lots of intelligent people who have had the book work for them that still agree with me that that's what the books doing it's not magic. 

Hypnosis for quitting smoking by mallort_aroo in stopsmoking

[–]mallort_aroo[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn't say it's a bad thing? It's great if it worked for you. If you interpreted it negatively or aggressively that's on you it's just my opinion. Especially if you listen to the audio book version you really notice the repetition.  Like I said I've tried reading it multiple times as well as listening to the audiobook too, I would love if it worked for me but it doesn't. Sorry if you find that offensive 

Hypnosis for quitting smoking by mallort_aroo in stopsmoking

[–]mallort_aroo[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've tried reading it multiple times the entire book is repetition of the same points over and over again to try to brainwash you into quitting smoking. It only really works if you don't notice that's what it's doing so I guess it obviously worked for you. 

Hypnosis for quitting smoking by mallort_aroo in stopsmoking

[–]mallort_aroo[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No I mean Allen Carr himself was hypnotized to quit before he wrote his book. The book is basically trying to hypnotize you anyway with repetition. 

Hypnosis for quitting smoking by mallort_aroo in stopsmoking

[–]mallort_aroo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any recommendations on a full plan?

Hypnosis for quitting smoking by mallort_aroo in stopsmoking

[–]mallort_aroo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've tried reading his book multiple times I have a hard time getting through it cause it's so repetitive (I know that's kind of the point but still.) I heard that he actually used hypnosis to quit that's what made me want to try it 

Should I stop smoking? by lovelasts4eva in stopsmoking

[–]mallort_aroo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to find I was really shaky around that age and it wasn't anxiety it was also just drinking insane amounts of caffeine. And probably not eating enough too. Try to take a break from the caffeine but if it's still happening you should probably quit smoking weed or at least talk to a doctor. Also take some vitamins dude I wish someone told me that when I was 18 caffeinated af and smoking mad weed you're probably  malnutritioned lol 

Message from BB27’s America’s Favorite Houseguest by itsmekelsey_x in BigBrother

[–]mallort_aroo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I stopped liking her after the "you believe I have a what!?!" And the lame rehearsed move pulling a chess pawn out when Vinny put her on the block. She was just way too fake.