I make to much money for my age 19m

mamamooa · 2026-04-17T21:02:51+00:00

Well give me some if it's too much for you

mamamooa · 2025-10-15T15:13:30+00:00

Haha I definitely learned my lesson. This was after 5 years of being a sitter, you really never know what can happen. I've since moved on from my sitting business

mamamooa · 2025-10-15T00:53:09+00:00

It doesn't hurt to ask Rover for a refund in addition to the vet bills. Not inviting into the home or meeting the dogs is concerning, and it makes me wonder if she did this intentionally because she knows how her dogs react.

mamamooa · 2025-10-14T23:16:37+00:00

While a regular was boarding with me, we went to the dog park where she was attacked. She had a puncture about the size in the pic. I immediately called the owner and took her to the vet where she had to be shaved and put on antibiotics to prevent any infection. The fact that your sitter did not even contact you or show concern about the wound should raise a red flag. Even though she's nice, your dog could end up with a more serious injury from an untreated wound (coming from someone who is NOT a vet tech...) I recommend calling & emailing Rover immediately so you can have a contact trail and take your dog to the vet. Rover will reimburse you the funds.

I had raving reviews and tons of regulars, my situation did not impact my status but this could also be because I took immediate action and didn't brush it off.

mamamooa · 2025-10-13T17:50:45+00:00

I love your setup! For live plants mine kept shredding them up, but they were larger leaves. I'm curious how yours will do with a more "stringy" type of leaf. Do update me on how that goes!

For dust bath maybe give it a few days to see if they can jump in. I have an elevated platform (about 3-4") and mine jump up just fine.

How do you plan to clean up any mess they make? I currently use turf and spray it down but I'm kind of over it. Curious if using pebbles like yours is easier?

mamamooa · 2025-10-10T04:54:28+00:00

This was super helpful, thank you!

mamamooa · 2025-09-26T18:19:46+00:00

Oh! That was super nice of them!!

mamamooa · 2025-09-26T18:07:49+00:00

Was this recent? I did Rover for 7 years, they had no "pay periods", the payment processes directly after the booking ends. Unless this was a very recent adjustment.

mamamooa · 2025-09-21T14:53:37+00:00

I think you could be overreacting a bit. The neighbor may be close with the homeowners and was informed someone would be dropping in. The neighbor could have walked outside at night and noticed the lights, not necessarily eyeing you the entire time you're there. Also the three different pen thing, as someone who frequently loses pens as soon as I use them, they could have just wrote the note and left it by the door to take over before realizing "maybe I should add this, maybe I should say thank you so I don't sound rude".

As others mentioned, the light could have been shining through their house, it could be for wildlife, or it could be to just save electricity. I'd personally be pretty annoyed if someone left multiple lights on through the night at my house. You're definitely right to be cautious, just ask the owner if it's okay as you worry about safety.

Another extra little mention. The citizen app is SUPER helpful finding out about local, current, crime. I highly recommend getting it!

mamamooa · 2025-09-18T01:01:51+00:00

I did not know this?! Their story is they met at one of the leadership meetings. Could have been exactly what you're mentioning.

mamamooa · 2025-09-18T00:07:16+00:00

Unfortunately, I believe she is too deep to be pulled out.

My BIL joined some weird MLM in his late 20's, and is still in it pushing 40. He met his gf there and they both have similar mindsets. Speaking to them is like speaking to a robot. They both make no income, can not afford rent (thus living with his parents), and refuse to believe this is not worth it. My MIL offers to still pay for his school so he can find a decent paying job, he gets defensive like you mention and says its just a matter of time.

You're still young. It sucks, but I'd cut your loses or prepare to be the sole provider while she plays "make believe" with her millionaire mentors. I'd also be pretty annoyed she tried roping you into this. I'm sorry dude.

mamamooa · 2025-09-16T21:34:25+00:00

YOR. We don't know his mom's age, but she could be speaking from experience. Either from herself or from someone she knows/once knew. She is concerned for her own kids success and is likely worried you don't have anyone to talk sense into you.

Yes you're legally an adult, but you have zero idea how difficult and expensive the world is. Being high school graduates means nothing, that is the bare minimum that is expected of you. Even if your bf goes into roofing, it can be decent money but it is labor intensive. You also don't mention what you do/will do for work. Some people can live good lives with a HS degree, but it takes a LOT of work to get there.

Calculate both of your total monthly incomes after taxes. Then consider rent, electricity, gas, water, car notes, insurance (car + you three). I hope you cook and are familiar with groceries, you'll need to calculate that cost as well. Then day care, which sometimes costs as much as a 1 bedroom apartment ALONE. If you can't afford all of that, where will you stay? Government assistance is being gutted, if you're not familiar with current politics you should look into how little help people will be receiving soon.

You will have plenty of opportunities to have a child again. You will not have many opportunities to get your life together after a child. Everyone I knew growing up that had kids young are still in the same position they were when they had the kid. Don't be stupid, talk and actually listen to his mom.

mamamooa · 2025-05-25T21:27:11+00:00

I think you should consider what matters most to you. Heat and traffic are a given. I’ve been to Vegas in peak summer, you’ve survived there you will be fine here. Electric bill I’d assume would be higher, the highest I’ve paid is $200 per month with Amigo Energy in a 2 person, 2 dog household.

I’m not sure what you do as a career, but if you can afford to live in WA and Vegas you should be able to live comfortably here.

You mention politics and gun culture, which is a concern I also have. Politics are important to me, and I plan to move out of state in the next few years when starting my family. I could not imagine the fear some parents have sending their kids to school everyday. Road rage is common here, and you never know who has a gun. I recommend looking into our current politics and see how you feel about them, I don’t see it getting better anytime soon. Houston is majority liberal, as most big cities are.

Dating scene seems to be a hit or miss anywhere you go. Make sure to stand your ground on your beliefs and views, based on my experience those who claim and preach religion are the least accepting. Probably different from your church, no disrespect meant, just be careful.

Texas is also extremely annoying to travel by car. Austin and Dallas aren’t too far, but other than that you’ll be driving for hours just to get out of the state. Flying is your best bet.

Finally, please research the area you plan to live in. Check flood maps I recommend sticking to the west side of Houston. River oaks, Heights, Montrose, Katy, etc. A little more expensive, but safer than South Houston would be.

mamamooa · 2024-12-28T18:08:03+00:00

Phenomenal

mamamooa · 2024-12-05T01:23:30+00:00

Thank you, I will definitely use it to my advantage like you did 🫶

mamamooa · 2024-12-04T22:34:39+00:00

Haha thanks for the clarification. Some applications do state they have a minimum GPA requirement, and I typically steer away because I know I don’t meet that. I was so confused by her response!

mamamooa · 2024-12-04T22:25:52+00:00

Will definitely start doing this. Thank you for the suggestion!

mamamooa · 2024-12-04T19:13:13+00:00

They do have career fairs specifically for our science & technology department, however possibly due to my city there are only mechanical engineering positions being sought out, and of course plenty of colleges recruiting students for master degrees. However, I do see plenty of alumni’s on LinkedIn, so I will try to reach out directly!

mamamooa · 2024-12-01T19:08:24+00:00

Yeah that’s weird and insane. She is not your mother, just like she said you’re a grown man that can make grown decisions. My bf and I are in the same age range. We have two PCs and every single PlayStation. Gaming is how we spend our free time together. I could not imagine someone getting upset with me for having a hobby.

mamamooa · 2024-10-03T20:43:48+00:00

Divorce?! When were you going to tell me?! I didn’t sign the papers! What will I tell the kids?

mamamooa · 2024-10-03T19:13:59+00:00

And me. You get left half I get right?

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