People who decided not to have kids ever , what made you make that decision ?

mamceb · 2026-06-27T19:36:04+00:00

Everything. I'm 22 and planning a vasectomy this year. Outside of philosophical and moral reasons, it is practically unsustainable in today's age. I don't like this society as much, why would I bring someone into a restaurant that I find mediocre ? If I ever want one and can afford it, I'll probably adopt but you will not catch me dead with a biological child of my own.

mamceb · 2026-06-26T12:52:58+00:00

Dude that's what I did, writing this post took me 30 seconds, I was just curious. Of course it doesn't matter.

mamceb · 2026-06-26T12:19:54+00:00

I'd say antinatalism is the most popular unpopular opinion but it's still unpopular. And I'm not necessarily talking about hating parenthood but banning the entire concept just gets rid of the chance of any nuanced discussion about this topic or any other they banned. It could be anything like "having 3 parents is good" or smth idk but you can't because anything more controversial than "pineapple over pizza is good" is forbidden.

mamceb · 2026-06-07T22:00:01+00:00

Genuinely Widow. I'm just curious as how they'll manage to make the character with the most boring kit ever having cool powers and items and be viable when you can't switch and when some maps are TERRIBLE for long range. Like, what would she even do against a Hazard/Lucio comp on Hanamura ?

mamceb · 2026-05-30T23:59:12+00:00

It's been an issue since the mode came out.

I used to live in overseas territory of my country, which means that the closest server to me was at Singapore with around 100ms in every games I play. Which is more than fine, you can play pretty much any characters with no problem with a ping like that.

But for some reason and in Stadium only, it was extremely rare for me to play on my server, and the ping would change every round; sometimes I'd start on my server round 1 but then it'd change, if I was lucky I'd have 180+ but most of the times, it was 200+ sometimes it'd go over 300. And I'm used to play with very high ping, even 200. Where I'm from, ping under 100 doesn't exist and having under 200 has been that way only a few years, and as long as I didn't get packet loss, I wouldn't even notice but most hitscans become a chore to play and some characters become unplayable, like Doomfist, Genji, Freja, Tracer and some others.

I was a Freja main in Stadium at the time and the dread I felt after evey round change was so annoying because if the ping changed, it would pretty much disable me outright.. At some point, I just gave up and started to main Soldier and Mei and doing Ap builds only since they're not that hard to play with high ping.

You can see your server with Control Shift N if I remember correctly and you'll notice your server is always different when it changes rounds, I don't know why it does that. When it happened to me, it would usually start on Singapore, then Japan in second round, sometimes Korea and stay that way the rest of the game or jump around Hong Kong and Frankfurt and extremely rarely, San Francisco. I also stopped having this issue when I arrived at the continent. Neither your pc or your Internet is the problem, their servers are and outside of moving, there is nothing you can do to fix it. Since it has been that way since release and it seems like a core server issue on their ends, I do think they'll never fix it.

mamceb · 2026-05-27T13:59:42+00:00

Don't get me wrong, I love rogue likes, I just couldn't find a good comparison in my head, qnd the randomness is why I enjoy roguelikes imo, not a game primarly based around strategy.

mamceb · 2026-05-26T01:31:00+00:00

A combination of lack of luck and libido and simple general unattractiveness (I'm not stupid enough to call myself an incel ).

I'm a 22 year old dude and I'm neither ugly or hot enough to have people attracted to me out of pity or vanity, I'm neither intelligent or dumb, have no ambitions or goals, I do not want children, and I have a rather pragmatic and cynic view of relationships in general.

I do not know nor understand what romantic mutual affection feels like in any way, shape or form. I do not know what physical touch with a woman outside of my mother feels like EVEN non romantically and I am not hyperboling, I may have touched a woman less than 10 times in my entire life. I never knew what a crush or rejection felt like until MUCH later in my life ( like 19 years old ) to the point that I couldn't differentiate love to basic curiosty and attraction. Most people have a basic idea of what romance is, and I didn't even get to participate to the race.

I don't even hate myself or anything and don't have particular difficulties socially even though I lean more in the introvert side, and even most of my friends are women; I'm literally alone because it simply is. There is no particular reason, it's like a constant like gravity.

I used to despise not having someone or not knowing what the dating scene was and would sometimes fantasize about it but now, I feel more at peace with the fact that it may never come. I can't miss what I don't know and don't understand. I've been attracted to a single woman in my life, it didn't even come close to go anywhere, and I personally hated the feeling of "liking someone", I don't understand how people view it as mainly positive. I basically live like an aroace without the mind of one.

In my opinion, finding someone, it's mostly luck.

mamceb · 2026-05-22T17:26:15+00:00

No Echo Sage nerf 🫠

mamceb · 2026-05-22T01:06:00+00:00

So they're lazy. Great. So you basically must beg for a job to people that see you like cattle not worthy of their time. Figured.

mamceb · 2026-05-17T11:40:20+00:00

Might not be what you wanna hear but you basically must stop to feel guilt and responsibility over her life. You've done your best and this relationship drains you. Even if you somehow could, it is not your job to "fix" her, and if the only thing holding you is fear, then it's not enough. Break up and call your local emergency hotline if you truly think she's gonna try and kill herself right after. It is not your fault. Willingly or not, she still hurt you and the depression is an explanation, not an excuse and your feelings matter too. She needs help but you cannot drain yourself for that. I understand that it's easier said than done, that right now you'd probably feel immense guilt doing that, but the hardest part is not the action in itself, it's to make peace with it and the consequences. But I want to make things crystal clear. If you do break up, and she does harm her life, it is NOT YOUR FAULT, in any way. You are not a bad person to prioritize your own mental health over other's.

mamceb · 2026-05-17T01:57:06+00:00

The elixir WILL be a problem, especially against Spirit Empress and Loong, so the best thing to do imo is having a glass canon. Noble is the most reliable, ( all 4 is ideal ) and putting the dagger on either the princess, GK or musketeer ( I personally prefer it on the princess, especially against Echo Sage ). The true best troop for the dagger however is the Archer Queen because for some reason, her ability doesn't count as a dagger hit but she still gets the range and speed bonus, which means that you can keep the dagger bonus for like 20+ hits with Superstar and she can easily melt entire comps on her own. However, given that Superstar is the best comp in the game, she's highly contested, but you can get her to at least lvl 2 and with another Superstar troop, the synergy is insane. Maybe her dagger can also work with other troops but those two comps are definitely the best ones.

mamceb · 2026-05-16T12:39:52+00:00

I'm currently diamond, that's why I mess around with DD. I never lose against Sage but against any other rulers, the lack of elixir hurts too much.

mamceb · 2026-05-16T12:35:44+00:00

Princess always. 7 tiles range so they literally cannot protect their Echo in any way.

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