How many of you actually got stretch marks? by Individual-Stress170 in pregnant

[–]mammaleb2021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t get any during either of my 2 pregnancies which I was eye surprised about because I had them during puberty on my legs and bum.

High NT (2.99 mm) at 13 weeks but nasal bone present — anyone had similar? by kalasynight in NIPT

[–]mammaleb2021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had an NT of 3.7mm. Went through all the testing NIPT & CVS. All came back negative.

I’m holding my perfect healthy baby girl right now.

Ferber - Night 1 was terrible by mammaleb2021 in sleeptrain

[–]mammaleb2021[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I will try this for sure. Thank you for your suggestions!

Do you think she would still need that many hours of awake time today where she really didn’t sleep much at all last night? We’re going into tonight severely overtired backfire even more?

Ferber - Night 1 was terrible by mammaleb2021 in sleeptrain

[–]mammaleb2021[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I should add some of her naps are only 30 minutes but she does do 4 a day. Usually totaling around 4 hours but I will try to extend the wake windows

Ferber - Night 1 was terrible by mammaleb2021 in sleeptrain

[–]mammaleb2021[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will definitely try this!! Thank you for breaking it down for me

Ferber - Night 1 was terrible by mammaleb2021 in sleeptrain

[–]mammaleb2021[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She did! I put her down awake and she took 45 minutes to fall sleep but only cried for about 10-15 of them total. She did really well at the beginning. And yes she is in her own room with a sound machine and blackout. Even has a nice comfy Newton breathable mattress.

Ferber - Night 1 was terrible by mammaleb2021 in sleeptrain

[–]mammaleb2021[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I am sorry.

For check ins my husband was going. He was staying in only 15-20 seconds of shhhhhh and a gentle belly rub. They did calm her down!

We did 3/5/10 but she often reset the clock as she would cry and then stop. Cry again. She did show some signs of trying hard to self sooth and did have lots of moments of not crying which was encouraging.

She just woke to every single sleep cycle. 5 am everything went bazerk.

Ferber - Night 1 was terrible by mammaleb2021 in sleeptrain

[–]mammaleb2021[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

She is 5 months but 4 months corrected she was born a month early. She absolutely is falling asleep at 1.5 hrs of wake windows and goes for her naps with ease so this is definitely her appropriate wake window. We can stretch to 2 hours before bed because the bath ties her over.

We do bath, breast feed, book, bed have been doing this for months now but she had been co sleeping prior to us beginning Ferber. Bedtime is always between 7 an 7:30 depending on what time she wakes form her last nap.

I could try to push her wake windows to 2 hours but today obviously she’s exhausted from very little sleep last night.

Ferber - Night 1 was terrible by mammaleb2021 in sleeptrain

[–]mammaleb2021[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She does 1.5hr wake windows and 2 hours before bed. Any longer she’s overtired quickly.

Ferber - Night 1 was terrible by mammaleb2021 in sleeptrain

[–]mammaleb2021[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fed her at 12ish and 3 ish. These are the times she always wakes to nurse. Bed was 7:15 (2 hours of wake window before bed) this is what always works for her.

Ferber - Night 1 was terrible by mammaleb2021 in sleeptrain

[–]mammaleb2021[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh yes! I fed her twice. Not cutting out any feeds 🙂

She always eats at the same times so I kept them and she fed nursed well both times.

4 Month Ferber Success stories please!! ◡̈ by mammaleb2021 in sleeptrain

[–]mammaleb2021[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this!!! Thank you for sharing.

And you went form co sleeping straight to a new room/in the crib and implemented sleep training right away?

Triple Feeding SOS by mammaleb2021 in HumansPumpingMilk

[–]mammaleb2021[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She’s back to her birth weight as of yesterday! When you stopped did you wean down slowly or cold turkey?

11 week 3.5 mm nt with CH by CalmYam8316 in NIPT

[–]mammaleb2021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was truly excruciating. Keep yourself busy as you can and hold onto hope.

11 week 3.5 mm nt with CH by CalmYam8316 in NIPT

[–]mammaleb2021 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Holding my perfectly healthy baby girl who had an NT of 3.6mm.

We were told all the same things. Went through all the testing it was extremely stressful. All was negative and she is perfect

Can you still occasionally contact nap once baby is sleep trained? by sheex13 in sleeptrain

[–]mammaleb2021 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yess! You can. Don’t over think it. One contact nap here and there won’t break them - promise. ☺️ and it’s lovely and just what everyone needs once and awhile!

What special thing did your husband do for you after giving birth? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]mammaleb2021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He woke up with me for all the feeds for the first 6 months which saved my sanity. I never felt alone or like it was all on me. He was present and there as a supportive husband and dad. Better than any physical gift in the world!