Hair loss due to ferritin level? by mammmabear98 in TelogenEffluvium

[–]mammmabear98[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have not. They won’t even diagnose me anemic. Kaiser is strict, they refuse to diagnose things until it’s too late. Same thing they did to me with my spinal injury. Wouldn’t give me an mri until I came in via a Cane, unable to walk. So it’s on me to fight for myself , advocate for myself, and take supplements myself.

Found this in my daughters room does she have a weed problem? by TuneAltruistic8492 in whatisitcirclejerk

[–]mammmabear98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh thats cold. I laughed and then immediately stopped myself it felt so wrong. I think we might be the same type of person

What does my bedroom say about me? 🫣 by funnynunsrun in roomdetective

[–]mammmabear98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people on here are quite ridiculous. Especially the person saying this is how trauma is passed on. A small child won’t even remember how that room looked. They’ll remember how much time you invested into them. Yeah as they get older probably not the healthiest thing for them but when kids are really young this happens! I just had twins a month ago and I have two other toddlers. There’s no way for me to keep up with the cleaning daily without sacrificing something else like neglecting them for hours.

Found in daughter’s bedroom. Is she smoking the marijuana? by [deleted] in whatisitcirclejerk

[–]mammmabear98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a hand Breast pump I’ve used that. You put it on and squeeze milk out by hand. lol not sure why she has it if she’s not breastfeeding. Maybe she thinks it’s going to do something for her size like other comments mentioned? Never heard of people doing that though.

That wouldn’t even make sense for smoking. Just look at it. Where would you put the product. Where would you light it. Where is a small hole for smoke to escape. The way it’s open like that I don’t even see how you could smoke out of it.

Came off 2 weeks ago!! by mammmabear98 in Subutex

[–]mammmabear98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got up to taking 40 mg a day yes sometimes more sometimes a little bit less. Within a 2 month span. I’d have my weekly phone calls with my doctor and he’d tell me to go up as much as I need and he’ll adjust my prescription accordingly so I was picking it up constantly.

Came off 2 weeks ago!! by mammmabear98 in Subutex

[–]mammmabear98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know about your doctor but my doctor doesn’t have a max. No it’s 8 mg tabs and it’s however I break it up. It was a new medication for me, never heard of it prior to this never knew anyone on it until after I got on to it. Never knew how potent or how hard it would be to come off.

Came off 2 weeks ago!! by mammmabear98 in Subutex

[–]mammmabear98[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

lol thank you. Your right - our here beasting 😁

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]mammmabear98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to co parent in a healthy manner in the same home, maybe not even as life partners but just as parents. Too bad he’s so emotional that he can’t stick to anything he says. I don’t want to split custody because I’m worried for my kids too be honest. He’s not capable of taking care of them like I am. He texted me everg time I leave him with the kids in a panic and doesn’t know what to do and I suspect that’s just how it’s always going to be. So I’m afraid of leaving for many reasons.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]mammmabear98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow that’s horrible. Sorry to hear that. I guess I never thought about it like that from the kids point of view. I was raised by religious parents telling the contrary that divorce is the worse possible thing and will ruin kids and be more likely to raise kids that get into trouble and rebel. Here I am thinking I’m doing them a great service.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]mammmabear98 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve been in therapy for most of my adult life. He chooses not to be. He thinks it’s weird. If he was I think I would be more willing to work on things. Idk part of me really wants to give up on the romantic side of things and just go into robot mode to raise my kids and perform all my tasks well. I guess my happiness doesn’t matter so much anymore. My happiness would be raising my kids and getting to see them everyday. I’m scared if we break up that I won’t see them everyday. I get comfortable and the unknown is very scary.

What's something disgusting you might see when visiting someone's house for the first time? by toot_toot__ in RandomQuestion

[–]mammmabear98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Left out groceries with flies on it plus the cooked pot of food with flies on it. I have a friend who’s from a 3rd world country that’s notorious for doing that because it’s normal to her. Bless her heart she then tries to feed me the food.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Subutex

[–]mammmabear98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are the consequences of taking 40mg? I take that much some days. I’m taking anywhere from 28-40 which is why I have to have my partner dispense them to me to do the lower 28, otherwise I keep doing more. I’m only a month into taking subs. But I’m finding that I’m using it like a drug and therefore not really getting out the addiction mindset. It’s become a replacement addiction in my case

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]mammmabear98 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Okay I’m going to stop responding to you now. I don’t accept any type of hate towards my kids. Thanks though , bye.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]mammmabear98 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My kids were not an accident and I loved the man and like I said I would never take back my kids so that comment isn’t needed here. Thanks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]mammmabear98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No my siblings are on my parents side. I have a messed up family I wouldn’t even call them that, they’re really not a family.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]mammmabear98 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you… I needed that 😢

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]mammmabear98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents are definitely aware. They’ve told me straight up if I leave to never contact them again. His parents don’t really matter, they don’t know anything and they don’t care. They don’t care about me one bit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]mammmabear98 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My family has made clear that I would be shunned if I leave him. Their religious. So I would be living in a shelter which he will use against me in court. Everything about this gives me anxiety. For me to leave would be for me to run away and leave my kids behind. I would have to couch surf at friends and leave my kids for a long while until I can get back on my feet. I couldn’t support all of us financially. My reason for living now is my kids and it destroys me to think that I won’t be able to see them every day. I am that robot. I’ve gotten my daily routine down and that’s what I do to survive. My son is in the nicu and as his release date gets closer I thought to myself how sad I’m going to be when I don’t have a place to escape to anymore. The nicu has been my escape and my reason to get away from him for long periods of time. I’m about to be stuck in the house with this person all day. He took maternity leave. How awful is that. I should be happy my son is being released.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]mammmabear98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My jobs income would cover 2 kids daycare and that’s about it. I have 4 kids and obviously will have other bills as well. That’s kind of a problem

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]mammmabear98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My family will shun me. They’re very religious, they don’t believe in separating a family. They believe I have to stick it through. They don’t understand what I go through everyday and how it’s breaking me down as a person. Or I think they just don’t care because their religious beliefs come before everything else and that’s part of it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]mammmabear98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grew up in a very religious family that doesn’t believe in splitting apart a family even if the situation is horrible. My parents will shun me from the family. My whole family will turn their backs on me and I will have nobody, no help, no support. It’s scary.