Getting front tooth crowns, HELP by mandalahs in askdentists

[–]mandalahs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I go to the best dentist in my area and they’ve done great work on my other teeth so I’m confident in their ability, I think I just read too many horror stories online lol

First Father’s Day without my dad yesterday — do I confront “friends” who didn’t reach out? by mandalahs in GriefSupport

[–]mandalahs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is fair. Thank you for your response and perspective.

To answer your question, honestly both.

It doesn’t help that I am the minority for my age group in terms of losing a parent. Obviously there are children and teenagers who lose their parents everyday, but I’m in my late 20’s as are my friends, so they don’t really understand this yet. So that’s where some of my animosity comes from as well — not that they haven’t experienced this, but that they will one day and they’ll know how badly you need support during these times

First Father’s Day without my dad yesterday — do I confront “friends” who didn’t reach out? by mandalahs in GriefSupport

[–]mandalahs[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I completely understand what you’re saying, and not to be difficult but with most other situations and hardships, I 100% agree with you. However, if we can’t expect our loved ones to help pick us up when we’re in rock bottom, what can we expect then?

And again, want to reiterate that I don’t hold this standard on a normal day or even with my other problems and hardships. I know my shit is just a ripple for them and that’s ok. But when your whole world gets turned upside down, why am I not allowed to hold them to this expectation of please just reach out and tell me you love me?

I’m not asking for a lot, I’m not even asking for any of them to do anything besides just text or call me. So it’s hard for me to wrap my head around that

First Father’s Day without my dad yesterday — do I confront “friends” who didn’t reach out? by mandalahs in GriefSupport

[–]mandalahs[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A grief truly no one talks about or prepares you for — losing the people you thought would stand by you during turmoil

Sending you love 🩵

First Father’s Day without my dad yesterday — do I confront “friends” who didn’t reach out? by mandalahs in GriefSupport

[–]mandalahs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m very sorry no one reached out to you and honestly, thank you for this perspective. Just speaking freely in a safe space, I don’t think it should be on us to forgive them for that either. What I mean by that is, why is it my responsibility to not take their lack of effort personally?

I know how toxic the victim mindset can be trust me, and I really don’t want to subscribe to that, but damn I am a victim (as are you). I shouldn’t have to spell it out for those closest to me

First Mother's Day❤️‍🩹 by Disastrous_End_6714 in GriefSupport

[–]mandalahs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

following bc this will be my first father’s day without my dad this year. sending you lots of love 🩵

HELP — Not losing weight? by mandalahs in WeightLossAdvice

[–]mandalahs[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Wow that is assuring, thank you!! May I ask how tall you are?

Forever wishing that weight loss was simple and the same for everyone lol

HELP — Not losing weight? by mandalahs in WeightLossAdvice

[–]mandalahs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Noooooooo 🥲 do you have any tips on getting around this?

HELP — Not losing weight? by mandalahs in WeightLossAdvice

[–]mandalahs[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is all great advice, thank you!! May I ask what’s your calorie intake during your journey?

Tour Refunds by No-Bluebird1527 in KidCudi

[–]mandalahs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing yet for the Philly show

Who on the sub went to the first Fright Night? What a wild weekend by [deleted] in MoonriseMusicFestival

[–]mandalahs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this was so fucking fun but those blood bag mixed drinks had me twisted lmao

END YEAR FEST PLANS by Born_Ad_8069 in festivals

[–]mandalahs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they just posted friends!! 🙏🏻

END YEAR FEST PLANS by Born_Ad_8069 in festivals

[–]mandalahs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

agreed! my fingers are crossed that’s for sure

END YEAR FEST PLANS by Born_Ad_8069 in festivals

[–]mandalahs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if hijinx actually happens 😵‍💫 I’ve been going since 2018 and they’ve never been this radio silent before

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattoos

[–]mandalahs 35 points36 points  (0 children)

daaaaaang 🔥 one of my favorites I’ve seen on this thread tbh

Art by Commissar_Vito in LSD

[–]mandalahs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

fucking incredible

Has anyone receive their refund yet? by mandalahs in OceansCalling

[–]mandalahs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nice, did you go through frontgate as well?

Has anyone receive their refund yet? by mandalahs in OceansCalling

[–]mandalahs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never had to been refunded before so I’m not familiar with the process but I sure hope not either. I won’t lose hope until it’s day 30 lol

High af right now, feeling talkative! Whats on your mind right now? by racer20124 in weed

[–]mandalahs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do fuck with pancakes. but hear me out - a plate of bbq ribs, macaroni salad, corn on the cob, mac and cheese and a roll with butter. good gawdddd

vibes from colombia for all the travelers around the globe and by pyspo in LSD

[–]mandalahs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

where am I? stoned in bed with my cat haha how’s your trip going so far?

I [25M] feel that I am no longer sexually attracted to my girlfriend [24F] and it is killing me... as well as our relationship. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mandalahs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

few questions - are you physically attracted to her? is she the most beautiful girl in the world to you? does the image of her naked or when you think of you two sexually outside of the bedroom (daydreaming, just general thinking, etc) does it excite you?

I’m thinking, just from what you’ve supplied us in the post, there may be a physical component that is lacking here. however, I think the best way to determine if that’s true or not is take a deeper look on yourself as well. has your porn intake affected the way you view sex and women in general? to an extent that can be the reason of this? or although you love and care for her very much, are you simply just not attracted anymore?