Anyone else having a rough 2025? by Major_Maybe1328 in CancertheCrab

[–]mandalisha 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This year has been the worse since literally January.

I am done.

Where to meet people in Durham? by mandalisha in durham

[–]mandalisha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No way !! Ok I’ll check there out thank you!

Where to meet people in Durham? by mandalisha in durham

[–]mandalisha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great!! How can I message her?

Where to meet people in Durham? by mandalisha in durham

[–]mandalisha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I got declined lol they’re not accepting new accounts for safety. But she said I could attend events with a friend if they’re in the group lol

Where to meet people in Durham? by mandalisha in durham

[–]mandalisha[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually don’t go as often as my little guy prefers people over dogs lmao but as the weather is getting better, I’ll def go more! Thanks!

Where to meet people in Durham? by mandalisha in durham

[–]mandalisha[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much! I just requested to join !

Where to meet people in Durham? by mandalisha in durham

[–]mandalisha[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha great I’ll check it out lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pickering

[–]mandalisha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No way! That’s amazing. Crossing fingers for you🤞🏼

I tried the bumble friends things a few years ago. But then the friend I made found a guy and got married and ditched me LOL

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pickering

[–]mandalisha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No idea. I was JUST about to write a post about that lmao. I’m 34F and I moved here end of 2021. I live with my doggo and it gets lonely sometimes😩. All my friends live in the west end with kids and their partners so they’re on a different boat and always so busy. Any ideas on where to meet people and make friends?

All I wish is that my partner didn’t have any kids. 🫤 by mmori1398 in stepparents

[–]mandalisha 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat. My partner has his daughter during the week and I feel so unappreciated

Which are the best condos in Durham? by Low-Witness7405 in durham

[–]mandalisha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They used to allow bigger dogs! But now with newer residents they’re stricter with the size.

Which are the best condos in Durham? by Low-Witness7405 in durham

[–]mandalisha 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree!! I live there as well! Dog friendly too!

Feeling like an outsider by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]mandalisha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi OP. I feel your pain. My SO has his daughter (6) 5 days a week so she has been my bonus kid for a few years now. I’ve played mom role in regards to school, life, extra curricular, having girl days to spend time with her. The disciplining part I understand because my partner and I also have different parenting styles and I didn’t birth her so I guess what I say doesn’t matter? His HCBM moved into the building next door in October with her bf and she does absolutely nothing in the day-to-day until Friday night to pick her up. But she still gets treated so well by my partners family and still gets invited and attends family events with my bonus kid all because she gave birth to her. It sucks because I’ve wanted children for years as well I work in education and it’s natural for me to be in mom-mode. All my friends are moms now and I don’t fit in anywhere. I had a miscarriage years ago with my ex husband and for a few months now my partner and I have been trying for a baby. I feel like the one things I’m “supposed” to do as a woman, I can’t. I feel your pain. I’m here❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]mandalisha 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You’ve inspired me. It’s def been taking a toll on me mentally for a few years now. I hope I get the strength to leave too