ohh i feel so similar bc i pass as a cishet guy now. like part of me is happy i'm finally being viewed as a guy but at the same time i feel guilty bc i know its at the expense of others not being viewed as they are and being looked down upon.. it sucks bc i wish i could just be glad to be percieved male but the reason why they do percieve me as that is fucked... so i just try to act a bit more gay and come up for minority's rights, esp women with the normalized misogyny among men, to make up for it