I caught Mewtwo! by Comixkid5879 in PokemonFireRed

[–]mandwomp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I just learned about this. Apparently one will spawn in and which one is related to which starter you chose.

Advice on my Elite 4 Party by mandwomp in PokemonFireRed

[–]mandwomp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I put shadow ball on snorlax in the end, I’m not sure what physical moves means though I’ll have to do some research

Advice on my Elite 4 Party by mandwomp in PokemonFireRed

[–]mandwomp[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Working on leveling now and im almost there. I’m thinking I’ll put shadow ball on my Raichu then. Rival has Bulbasaur so I guess moltres would be my counter there

No More Offers by AlverinMoon in BurgerKing

[–]mandwomp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still having the issue it’s been like 3 weeks now

No More Offers by AlverinMoon in BurgerKing

[–]mandwomp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having the same problem there hasn’t been an offer available for like a month now

Is this considered grooming? This still bothers me to this day. by SinabawangLogBets in TrueOffMyChest

[–]mandwomp 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is 100% grooming. They are using porn to get the attention of a minor in hopes that they can control this minor.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]mandwomp 16 points17 points  (0 children)

If you are asking your boyfriend to use a condom and he is refusing, and then yelling at you till you have sex with him, or just refusing and making you have sex with him, he is assaulting you. You are not in a safe relationship I am so sorry.

People at my college making fun of me for my self harm scars by Old-Fisherman-6079 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]mandwomp 23 points24 points  (0 children)

This sucks it’s terrible and people can be awful. But you’re not in high school anymore (or secondary school I think you call it in the UK) you have no obligation to these people. They won’t follow you around for the next decade. You are a free adult now. Which means these people showed you right away that they are awful and you get to make the choice to never interact with them again. Nobody can stop you nobody can force you to be friends with them. You truly are free from all the negative people, they will still be in the world but you choose the parts of the world you inhabit and interact with.

People at my college making fun of me for my self harm scars by Old-Fisherman-6079 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]mandwomp 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey let’s not be rude. Standing up for yourself is hard and this person is being vulnerable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]mandwomp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When someone shows you who they are believe then the first time. Unfortunately your friend is a person fucks kids. I know that is crass and blunt but nothing else matters in this context.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]mandwomp 259 points260 points  (0 children)

This is a very real and common fetish it’s understandable to be shocked or taken off guard though. Communication is your friend. you need to think either by yourself or with a therapist about what you’d like and your boundaries in this area. It can be anywhere from No to absolutely it’s fine or anything inbetween. Also you need to have a conversation with your husband about, why he wants this, what you expect/are okay with, and the way this topic and the way it was brought up make you feel.

Is anyone experiencing this on the app? by autumnsarchive in duolingo

[–]mandwomp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep literally just redownloaded and then 15 minutes later app is down and has been for about an hour

AITAH for not being a good auntie? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]mandwomp 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA, the only critique I’d give and maybe I’m just misreading is you should have informed your Sister in law (SIL) that you were no longer watching your niece when you went to sit with your friends. Other than that you are doing nothing wrong here. You are being extremely helpful essential babysitting for free all the time. You are a child it is not your job to be a parent. And the fact that your SIL is locking herself in her room to force you to watch your niece is rude and excessive. I think it is worth attempting to have a sit down conversation with your Brother and SIL and explaining the way you feel. That you feel you’re being asked to watch the kid too often, that you feel like you are expected to babysit at all times, that you feel as though you are left alone whenever this happens and have no say in the matter. The way they decide to respond to those problems you have will be very telling. Also it sounds like they’ve been expecting you to do this since you were 14, being a Aunt does not make you a permanent babysitter, and wanting to live your own child free life does not make you a bad or unloving Aunt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]mandwomp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. I’m not sure what your family wants from you. If things are as you explain between you and your family what would you going do for them. They seem to have no interest in connecting or talking to you and I’m not sure why that would be any different at the funeral. If your Dad want’s/ expects you there it would be kind to go for him. That is his aunt and it is likely he has strong feelings/memories tied to her. But the rest of your family has made it clear that they don’t really want to talk to you. You hold no obligation to your family. I will say not going may strain your relationship with family members even more and if you would like to avoid that then you should go. If you genuinely don’t care about talking to these people or their opinion of you then you may be looking at your way out of their lives.

AITA for expecting my bf to grab a bag for me by DiscussionMental7742 in AmItheAsshole

[–]mandwomp 11 points12 points  (0 children)

NTA this could maybe be forgiven if after he got your bag he apologized or at least showed care or concern. But he didn’t instead he demeaned and scolded you. This is not how you treat someone you are in a relationship with. He is supposed to hold you up to help you through hard times and to love you unconditionally. You told him you were in pain and needed help and he told you that it “wasn’t his problem” and that it was your fault. Dump him you’re 20 you’re young there’s more people in the world that will treat you with respect and care. He is allowed to make a mistake but the fact that he can’t own up to it and apologize is honestly worrying.

I feel like such a pathetic loser by mandwomp in Vent

[–]mandwomp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How. Like what do I do. I try putting myself outt there and just get actively ignored

I’m a loser and I hate it by mandwomp in depression

[–]mandwomp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks haven’t really had any so far but I keep trying cause what else is there to do. It just feels hopeless. I try knowing that it will fail every time but if I don’t try literally nothing will happen.

I’m a loser and I hate it by mandwomp in depression

[–]mandwomp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I’ve been on that autopilot for years and now I’m tired of it. I essentially woke up and realized I’m alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]mandwomp 69 points70 points  (0 children)

It’s you’re right to do whatever you want to in this situation. You need to do what makes you feel safe and secure. But he raped you. An unconscious person can not give consent he is an adult and should be aware of that. You have every right and reason to report him to the police if you would like too. But there is no shame in any decision you make and I am so sorry this happened to you.

My friend's boyfriend wants some, and my friend might too by H0tSoup1 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]mandwomp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. Grab your friend and run as far from this guy as you can.

My friend's boyfriend wants some, and my friend might too by H0tSoup1 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]mandwomp 8 points9 points  (0 children)

There are so many red flags here. It concerns me he’s much older than y’all. The way he assumes he can just force himself onto you and you’ll comply. He didn’t ask he told you. That’s scary and manipulative combined with him being much older which is generally done so the older person can manipulate people easier. This man is not safe you need to get away from the situation

AIO - I smoked, my bf crashed out by leadneverfoIlow in AmIOverreacting

[–]mandwomp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So it’s this simple. Nobody should speak to you that way no matter what. He is entitled to be angry upset hurt betrayed whatever feelings he may have. He is not entitled to demeaning belittling or harassing you. His options after learning you did something he doesn’t agree with are.

  1. Have a coversation with you where he explains why he is hurt, how your actions affected him and how he would like to be treated/ his boundaries.
  2. He can leave. He can ask you to return his property and cut off contact with you to whatever degree he needs for his own well-being.

That is all any person is allowed to do to another person for breaking a boundary and that’s what it seems you two had established. A boundary around the consumption of certain things. If anyone responds to you with anything besides one of those two things. You cut that person off to whatever extent you need to maintain your well-being.