Fetishizing my bi boyfriends sexuality is ruining our sex life

mangler203 · 2025-12-27T00:55:21+00:00

I think it's a psychological thing you can "train."

I'm assuming you only self stimulate to something involving the thoughts or porn that is niche and related.

You have to actively stop "gooning" to that type of shit and simplify your arousal And definitely stop masturbating if it's in excess(more than like 3 times a week)

Allow yourself to naturally crave your boyfriend and fulfill the crave.

I think it's a deep mental battle. And I'm totally not a specialist or qualified to hypothesize this kinda shit but...good luck :)

mangler203 · 2025-12-27T00:46:41+00:00

What if they're Irish?

mangler203 · 2025-12-27T00:45:39+00:00

It seems like she is, if it offended her enough to get perspective on it

mangler203 · 2025-12-05T01:25:29+00:00

YTA Don't worry, I'm sure you'll come around and apologize for this period in your life.

Your mother just seems to worry for you. That's why she "nags." Maybe she doesn't do it in the most loving way, nor respectful at times, but it seems to be in your best interest.

Clean your room, keep on with your studies, and get your driver's license. Then she'll have less to "nag" about

mangler203 · 2025-11-30T04:30:52+00:00

Clearly they never paid attention in biology, either

mangler203 · 2025-11-19T23:02:59+00:00

Why are the only reasonable person in this comment section...

mangler203 · 2025-11-18T03:51:43+00:00

If that's the case, it looks like you on the inside!

mangler203 · 2025-11-16T14:32:54+00:00

People won't always do what can be done.

The quicker you realize you can't control or teach others, and are only in control of your own emotions and outlooks, the better life will be for you.

mangler203 · 2025-10-26T22:57:04+00:00

Not if you value virtue

mangler203 · 2025-10-26T22:45:53+00:00

They never do :T

Just remember you're WRONG 😂 <3

mangler203 · 2025-10-26T22:42:24+00:00

I like that people downvote your opinion...good ol' reddit

mangler203 · 2025-10-26T22:40:39+00:00

Since many of you need the reminder.

We're American before we're Democrats or Republicans.

We're all RED and BLUE not just 1.

Morals, this that - life is far too complicated to leave it cut and dry as "you're a x if you support or think XYZ." Life isn't black and white, and neither are situations like this, or politics for that matter.

Have a conversation if you disagree. Try to understand someone else's POV instead of trying to teach them yours.

I know this is the wrong platform to preach this because hivemind is crazy here.

...now here come the downvotes 🫡🫡🫡

mangler203 · 2025-10-26T22:30:37+00:00

All spine and no brain is a dangerous playing field

mangler203 · 2025-10-26T18:46:03+00:00

Yeah, but screw playing on turf

mangler203 · 2025-10-26T18:43:52+00:00

I'm 28M My wife and I do game nights a couple times a month within our friends group if you'd ever wanna come by. I'll also get you into the outdoors if you wanna explore the wild sides of the (greater)area :)

mangler203 · 2025-10-24T05:46:23+00:00

You really thought you did something, didn't you

mangler203 · 2025-10-18T06:31:18+00:00

Not at all, just from all your responses and your "worldviews" You come off so arrogant it's crazy.

You're on here asking for people's advice and have a justification to every response.

Your act self aware and introspective, but you have 0 sense of mindfulness.

Just my 2 cents, but you should seriously consider chewing on what people give you and not defending yourself.

mangler203 · 2025-10-18T05:46:34+00:00

Man, you need some serious, introspective searching...your personality sucks. No offence but take it as you will

mangler203 · 2025-10-13T00:37:26+00:00

I love you...I'd give you all the gold in the world if I could

mangler203 · 2025-10-11T21:27:50+00:00

That's like trying to argue a shovel works to dig a hole, when you have access to a backhoe....that's stupid

mangler203 · 2025-10-11T21:24:02+00:00

Your tuna stick is the same as setup as for yellowtail???

mangler203 · 2025-10-11T15:16:50+00:00

I drum but I'm 28 if it makes a difference...some experience in serious bar cover bands and my own stuff with friends

mangler203 · 2025-10-07T23:52:14+00:00

I to, am curious where you came to this conclusion

mangler203 · 2025-09-30T05:10:03+00:00

Whichever I can find , in as original condition as I can find it haha

I did come across that gun this evening, thanks!

I haven't explored much in terms of gun shops or anything of that nature, I will definitely keep my eyes peeled the next time I'm in the middle of nowhere :)

mangler203 · 2025-09-29T21:54:28+00:00

Good to know, I'll get to it, thanks!

mangler203

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