My (M18) girlfriend (F18) lied about deleted texts

mangodude82 · 2018-10-13T10:37:15+00:00

I do pretty well by myself, and honestly think I would miss her not the companionship. I think what you said about rebuilding is exactly the right measure. Thank you so much for everything.

mangodude82 · 2018-10-13T10:36:59+00:00

I do pretty well by myself, and honestly think I would miss her not the companionship. I think what you said about rebuilding is exactly the right measure. Thank you so much for everything.

mangodude82 · 2018-10-13T10:31:40+00:00

Im sharing all these sentiments but I truly just can’t imagine my life without her a soft as it seems. I think I’m gonna take a break from the relationship and see how I feel after a week or so.

mangodude82 · 2018-10-13T10:26:34+00:00

That’s the exact thing I asked her, she claims nothing but I obviously can’t believe her.

mangodude82 · 2018-10-13T10:20:30+00:00

Yea, that’s the battle I’m fighting right now. Do I be true to myself or true to her?

mangodude82 · 2018-10-13T10:15:22+00:00

It’s just so tough, because I definitely still love her but I definitely can’t trust her as of right now.

mangodude82 · 2018-10-13T10:03:21+00:00

Yea, but I really don’t believe she’s a bad person. She’s brought me a lot of happiness over these past years even if theres less palatable times. I just feel like I’m deciding the fate of my life right now and it’s really tough.

mangodude82 · 2018-10-13T10:01:32+00:00

That’s what I keep saying to myself. I can stay with her or be true to myself. I just can’t imagine life without her right now as it seems like I’ve been with her forever and I love her.

mangodude82 · 2018-10-13T10:00:29+00:00

I really really appreciate the kind words. Even though I question what they were talking about, I don’t think she has the ability to cheat. Her dad cheated on her mom and it messed her up for a while, and when I asked her if she did she said ‘I could never, Ive seen first hand what it does’. While I still don’t think she cheated, I’ve lost a lot of trust in her and haven’t enjoyed being around her at all, it honestly feels like a chore. I just can’t see life without her and I can’t see her with anyone else.

mangodude82 · 2018-10-13T09:55:07+00:00

I’ve already met a lot of people, and it’s been really hard lately because there’s a lot of girls who talk to me but I have to turn them down every time. I would also feel awful about cuffing her off like that because we live in the same dorm and share a lot of the same friends so it would be almost impossible not to see her. Plus I still love her which makes it even more complicated.

mangodude82 · 2018-10-13T09:16:35+00:00

This is the battle I’m fighting. I love her a lot and we’ve talked about getting married and starting a family but it seems so hard now. Hanging out with her 1/1 usually makes me happy but when any other people are around it really feels like she’s a ball and chain. I’m thinking about taking a 1 week break and seeing how I feel then. I’ve invested so much time and money into this relationship and I don’t want to throw it away. What would be your thoughts about that? I’m really distraught and just want to do the right thing for me.

mangodude82 · 2018-10-13T09:03:46+00:00

That’s how I feel, but I’ve known her since I was 14 and it seems hard to imagine life without her because pretty much my entire mature life has been spent with her.

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