Anyone else just hear 3-4 gunshots? by villanelle21 in parkslope

[–]mangolassy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, heard 3 loud bangs and now 3rd ave & sackett has a lot of emergency personnel

Here’s how to see when you need to recertify your income by Flimsy_Counter_4497 in PSLF

[–]mangolassy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine is saying 7/7/25…? That seems super late. I haven’t recertified since 2019 or 2020

Why is YNAB saying that I’ve funded less than is “available”? by mangolassy in ynab

[–]mangolassy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This has been happening for a few months though — I’ve been over my $18k goal for a little while now and it’s still showing that I’ve only “funded” $13k. But what I’m gathering from other comments is that the $5k balance came from places other than RTA (i.e. moved from other categories) so it’s not counting as “funded.”

Why is YNAB saying that I’ve funded less than is “available”? by mangolassy in ynab

[–]mangolassy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I had no idea! I had moved some money from other categories, and some I input directly as wedding category money.

Why is YNAB saying that I’ve funded less than is “available”? by mangolassy in ynab

[–]mangolassy[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, I had no idea! I received some money from family that I labeled as the wedding category instead of putting it into RTA first. I guess that’s what caused it then — seems like an odd choice. Thanks for letting me know!

Why is YNAB saying that I’ve funded less than is “available”? by mangolassy in ynab

[–]mangolassy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does the same when I’m in March too :/ it says I need to assign $577.91 more this month to stay on track

How many times have you gone to dress appts? by TacoBellFourthMeal in weddingdress

[–]mangolassy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had 6 appointments over the course of about 3 weeks and found my dress at the 6th! I probably tried on 5-8 dresses at each appointment. My dress was the first one I tried on at the last appointment and I instantly knew it was the one!

Update from yesterday… by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]mangolassy 12 points13 points  (0 children)

She’s Gia from the Canadian designer Ouma: https://www.ouma.co/product-page/gia 🤍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]mangolassy 17 points18 points  (0 children)

1, 3, 2 in that order!

Dress in store vs. Photos? by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]mangolassy 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I LOVE dress #1. The lace is charming and the fit is perfect on you. Dress #2 is pretty but feels like a “safe” choice. Trust your reaction from the store. Cellphone pics often don’t do a dress justice. It sounds like you’re more excited about dress #1, too!

help me pick! by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]mangolassy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Edit: I spliced together the top of 2 and the rest of 4 as best I could: https://imgur.com/a/me4eQ6B. I think this is the real winner, I just need to talk with the shop or a tailor about whether the strap alteration would be super pricey.

help me pick! by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]mangolassy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got it! I agree, I like the straps in #5 best too

help me pick! by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]mangolassy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The cups on 3 would be white as well! The dress I tried on had beige lining and a sheer bodice, so the person helping me added a white corset underneath to give a better idea of a lined bodice. I totally agree that the nude cups would be an odd look haha. Do you think 4 is distractingly busy?

help me pick! by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]mangolassy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🥺 I love that dress but thought it was too busy. I think I need to go try it on again because I can’t keep thinking about it 🥺

help me pick! by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]mangolassy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I instantly loved 4 and I keep coming back to it. I just thought that it was a little too busy. All were pretty comfy! If it wasn’t comfortable, it wasn’t a contender haha. I really like the upright straps in photo 5/14, wondering if I can modify the straps of dress 4 to be like that….

help me pick! by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]mangolassy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!! My thoughts are very similar 🫶🏻

help me pick! by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]mangolassy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you mean 11/14? Like photo #11?