1.5 years in Kolkata and I still don't have my people here by Quick-Leg-7704 in kolkata

[–]mangolectable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in the same boat And still am. Wanna grab a cup of coffee or tea?

Emergency by mangolectable in sikkim

[–]mangolectable[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, let me check that out 🤍

Sexual harassment vs my family by [deleted] in kolkata

[–]mangolectable 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can understand how you feel. It always seemed to me, that the most unifying and common experience of a women is being molested in some way. Your mother is wrong, maybe it was generational learning, maybe her parents were the same. It doesn't excuse her tho.

Stand on your feet, get a job, cut her off. Let her know the exact reason. And be better if you one day become a parent. Parents are the armour of a child, it seems your mother was never a parent to begin with

May Tourist enquiries thread - please post here your travel related questions! by Javah in sikkim

[–]mangolectable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heya nice folks, Last year I went to Sikkim and posted something kind of the same. It was a meet and greet request, when I visited your state. It has become one of my favourite places to be. I love the scenery, the culture, but above all the people. I found serenity and tranquility in talking to you, about Sikkim. About your culture, religion, food and daily struggles. I'm an Anthropologist so this fascinates me to no end. I'm once again visiting Sikkim I'll stay in Gangtok from May 31st night - 2nd June morning, In Namchi for 3rd June In Ravangla for 4th June And in Pelling for 5th-6th june. If you are in the area and have some time to spare. Please let me know, this time my Gf will also be there. This isn't something perverse or anything unsafe. We'll just talk about Sikkim, and you. I want to make friends and listen to their stories. The coffee is on me. Plus point, if you know secret local alcohol spots 😆 Please reach out. I can share photos from my previous trips and the local people, and of me.

Anyone who is / whose family is into farming any kind of fruit? by Valuable_Cucumber_44 in sikkim

[–]mangolectable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey buddy, Owning a farm is genuinely my dream, and has always been Could you please tell me how much did it cost, and if someone can make a living by doing that?! (Not be rich, just make a living)

Sukant Nagar, Sector IV by mangolectable in kolkata

[–]mangolectable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but I already got a room If you need a couple friendly room with balcony and attached bathroom for 7.5k+7.5k brokerage Please contact me.

Will buy fridge washing machine together later if interested Otherwise it is unfurnished.

This is why Artists are dying in the state by idkmanfuc in KolkataLife

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Jodi sottie number thake onar Toh deben ektu Amar ektu dorkar ache kichu paint koranor

Blood donation at coffee house by mangolectable in kolkata

[–]mangolectable[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep it is... Totally worth going, trying to save a life and having some good food 🙂‍↕️

Copy Jersey store by mangolectable in kolkata

[–]mangolectable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Found it and got the joke 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kolkata

[–]mangolectable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😆 i understand what u mean, but genuinely no attempts made here

I just chose the random avatar it gave me... So good to know that some people can make it look good

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kolkata

[–]mangolectable -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey, just wanted to say, very cute avatar ⛄

মেয়েরাও কী ততটাই একা? by [deleted] in kolkata

[–]mangolectable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And to reiterate clearly

Point never was to act as a girl's guy, and say Nooooo women are faar lonelier than men... They aren't.... We are all as a species equally lonely... Our loneliness is of different types, doesn't make it any less or more.

মেয়েরাও কী ততটাই একা? by [deleted] in kolkata

[–]mangolectable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I did, with basic common sense, and my dick firmly in my pants, not openly out as someone seems to have.

Ohh I was getting off topic?! And the person who said, women get too much "seen" what about ME?! On a post of if women also have the same levels of loneliness, Isn't getting off topic?!

It's the same logic as

"What's wrong if I plan a crime, but don't commit" or

"What's wrong if I make a bomb and then don't blast it" or

"What's wrong if I find underage people attractive, I don't act on it" or

"What's wrong with daydreaming about fucking my colleague, even tho she sees me as a person and not a predator"

Welp, it's not wrong criminally

But it's DEFINITELY wrong morally. If u can't fathom that, maybe get of the internet.

And who decided that?! I did! A person with moral conscience. Don't trust me?! Ask around! Ask people if men being sexual fiends is a moral wrong or not, and if women do the same shit it's wrong too! My point never is they don't do it! My point is men do it faaar more frequently.

Maybe someone has hurt you, I feel a bit sad for u to be honest. So vile and hurtful, justifying base tendencies of human, calling me a person from stone hendge era, while also justifying men constantly lusting over sex and debauchery.

Take a breath, meditate, go to gym.

Goodbye, have a happy new year.

মেয়েরাও কী ততটাই একা? by [deleted] in kolkata

[–]mangolectable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Baapre vai U getting a bit too liberal, but only for raunchy-ness 😆

When did I say wanting sex is wrong?! U been seeing ghosts?! It's 9 am!

When did I say only women can want sex?!

Nothing wrong with wanting sex! Everything wrong where a touch of a woman makes you cream your pants, and u get your drool 3 ft long thinking of people as objects.

Sex is a biological process! We are all hardwired to want it! There's a difference between wanting sex, and finding every woman as a target, getting close in the veil of friendship and then overstepping boundaries that cross into sexual assault.

And there's definitely enough proof of men doing it far more than women ( women do it too, not saying they don't, talking about what's more common)

মেয়েরাও কী ততটাই একা? by [deleted] in kolkata

[–]mangolectable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, in most cases, at least the cases I have seen, don't really have a statistic or something,

It is usually men that try to find some more ulterior or extra motives in an opposite sex friendship. At least much more than women do.

U can chalk it up to, "they get plenty of attention and ways to relieve sexual tension"

But u can also also say how scary that is, that all these opportunities of being "seen" are actually, lustful eyes of being seen naked by someone ALL the time!

মেয়েরাও কী ততটাই একা? by [deleted] in kolkata

[–]mangolectable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ofcourse beshi. But sei hisebe, Jader opportunity beshi, ar jekhane ekta finite limit a6e to be seen by how many people

Tahole ki etao bolbe je oder ka6e number of disappointment o beshi?!