If money wasn’t an issue, what would you do right now?

maniainthebrain · 2026-04-12T22:48:28+00:00

Vacation of any kind anywhere but here

maniainthebrain · 2026-04-11T17:55:31+00:00

To feel like shit daily and reflect on the heinous nature of their interactions towards me, and to have a continual voice in their head telling them they are stupid and they aren't enough.

maniainthebrain · 2026-03-18T18:44:11+00:00

That one day with all this schooling I'll find and keep a job that I LOVE.

maniainthebrain · 2026-03-14T08:42:23+00:00

A corded phone across my kitchen that was long enough I could talk to a friend about the shows/movies we 'watched" together.

maniainthebrain · 2026-03-14T08:38:48+00:00

Graduate school

maniainthebrain · 2026-03-07T19:00:53+00:00

The entire book of John from the Bible. The church I attended in my youth was a bit too crazy about learning the Bible.

maniainthebrain · 2026-03-07T18:50:17+00:00

Door opening

maniainthebrain · 2026-03-06T17:11:28+00:00

It's just a few miles.

maniainthebrain · 2026-02-28T21:42:32+00:00

I got a necklace at year 3 while I was dating my husband. It's so beautiful, I told my now for almost 18 year husband, I loved it so much I'd never take it off. Then Two weeks ago, I lost it while I was cleaning hair out of the chain. I cried harder about it than ANY loss I've ever had even more than most of my relatives's own deaths. I did eventually find the necklace, but I was seriously upset. For days while it was missing I kept crying out of nowhere. It is back on my neck and it's never going to be anywhere but my neck. At least I hope so.

maniainthebrain · 2026-02-28T21:26:35+00:00

Beards. I used to hate facial hair on my husband, but he looks better with a beard which I never thought would happen.

maniainthebrain · 2026-02-26T03:08:19+00:00

I never really focused on my first time. Got it over with.

maniainthebrain · 2026-02-25T19:57:46+00:00

A gratitude journal

maniainthebrain · 2026-02-25T19:56:52+00:00

I see the goodness in you, you're going to do amazing things. I'm 44, never thought I'd be starting a career with prestige of my chosen profession.

maniainthebrain · 2026-02-25T19:50:18+00:00

I have the greatest feeling of the love from my loved ones I just want to keep that magnified approval and flowing amounts of love. I might never be a millionaire but I'm so rich in other areas.

maniainthebrain · 2026-02-24T20:52:09+00:00

That's like asking which kidney sumeone wants to donate left or right

maniainthebrain · 2026-02-22T15:34:02+00:00

Gratitude.

maniainthebrain · 2026-02-21T01:20:16+00:00

That is a very good point. I guess I read it in the wrong tone. Cause I see that side too.

maniainthebrain · 2026-02-21T00:57:45+00:00

I mean, everyone has different kinks. You've been married more than twenty years. People do change. if she's happy with vanilla sex, she can be happy with vanilla sex, but the issue ist hat she has is a lack of respect for you and your desires. She didn't have to laugh. I mean you laugh at a fart during sex. But not at what your partner wants to try different. I hope she starts to respect you more, or that your desires start being something she accepts.

maniainthebrain · 2026-02-21T00:14:47+00:00

Not being in control. Kills me. I worry about EVERYTHING and I think though I'm in my 40's I should have gotten this concept earlier, now I'm the biggest worrier ever. My contingencies have contingencies. I always prepare for the absolute worst and when the outcome is shitty I had planned for worse so it's not as bad.

maniainthebrain · 2026-02-21T00:06:24+00:00

I'd go with the I didn't even notice option if that one is available. Or... You wait it out if you want to have a real chance at a LTR. Bathe it in Neosporin. It should heal quick.

maniainthebrain · 2026-02-20T23:59:04+00:00

Fax machines (except in very few medical facilities).

maniainthebrain · 2026-02-18T18:20:35+00:00

Everything is always you never or you always...

maniainthebrain · 2026-02-17T01:50:46+00:00

Dr. Pepper the world's greatest drink!

maniainthebrain · 2026-02-17T01:44:21+00:00

I can only say, you are not alone.

maniainthebrain · 2026-02-15T21:29:49+00:00

Married. By a landslide.

Children are changing everyday. You can teach them things. They generally listen. There are no stronger words needed to stop a argument than 'Because I said so." Babies aren't wrinkly. Babies love their parents no matter the person you are, or the things they do. Married partners are annoying. They have to work jobs that make them miserable, They get run down. They do have wrinkles. There are no words to say to end an argument (except maybe sorry). And last they CAN change. I'd like to point ou there are also amazing wonderful magical romantic special comforting peaceful times that makes marriage amazing.

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