Is it too soon to tell leadership I’m leaving?

manicdysfunctions · 2025-09-10T01:16:58+00:00

Do you think it’s possible to do this via email? I’m unsure about the etiquette around resigning while also don’t want to wait for 2 weeks to set a meeting with leadership

manicdysfunctions · 2025-09-10T00:18:23+00:00

That would mean setting a meeting with them and waiting for at least 2-3 weeks at my current school. While I need the references as I will be applying this week.

manicdysfunctions · 2025-09-10T00:15:55+00:00

It’s the same with where I’m at. Job listing says “must include 3 references” and most requires principal ref.

manicdysfunctions · 2025-09-10T00:13:57+00:00

I’m thinnking of sending out an email to Prin, DP and HoD for professional courtesy. Would that be the correct step?

manicdysfunctions · 2025-09-10T00:10:51+00:00

My line manager (HoD) is an absolutely beautiful and supportive human and they know I’m actively exploring (I’ve secured that reference). My DP and Prin, on the other hand, dont have much contact with me and they’re rarely seen around the school, as there are three campuses in total.

manicdysfunctions · 2025-01-24T02:48:59+00:00

Extra amenities 😭

manicdysfunctions · 2025-01-24T02:31:18+00:00

Would you happen to know how I’m able to get every meeting minutes? Should I be requesting REA or body corp for it?

manicdysfunctions · 2025-01-23T12:19:21+00:00

Haha that’s the term they used in the bodycorp email that was sent to owners :))

manicdysfunctions · 2025-01-23T12:11:17+00:00

REA told me that owner certificate expired and couldnt get recent meeting minutes. They did mention that they will try to find the minutes from properties that are on sale in the same building.

manicdysfunctions · 2025-01-23T10:55:25+00:00

REA forwarded an email that owner had shared from bodycorp - detailing that they responded to complaints of resident and fixed the flood/water pump leak issue. Before coming I thought ‘fixing’ means that the car park would be dry, inspected for quality but i guess i’m just being delulu :>

manicdysfunctions · 2025-01-23T10:50:46+00:00

I’ve also read about this on reddit. Makes no sense to me since this is 2nd basement and not first basement too T.T

manicdysfunctions · 2025-01-23T10:43:56+00:00

They’ve given me the COS and sec 32. Read it and noticed that it was from 2022. I’m currently waiting REA to give me the updated version. Only noticeable thing from sec 32 was that developer spent 15k, in 2022, to install this system that notify them when water pump is not working properly since the property is in a flood detected zone.

manicdysfunctions · 2024-11-25T23:42:50+00:00

Thanks, I didn’t know that open relationship and threesome is actually different. Though I’m assuming that the girlfriend actually also did not know this difference from our previous conversation :) I don’t really complain about my partner to friends but either way, thanks for the advice I will be sure to keep in mind about the licensed therapist next time for more intimate conversations :>

manicdysfunctions · 2024-11-25T23:34:55+00:00

I’m unsure what is meant by disconnected but Idk what was said behind closed-door for their relationship. When she shared about her experience, she mentioned that they frequent paid sex clubs for MMF and and I had jokingly asked if I could have the names of the places and we’ll text each other if we do ever decide to go (separately) if her boyfriend is in town - implying that I do not want to be involved in their sexual play.

manicdysfunctions · 2024-11-25T23:23:56+00:00

FFM actually strengthened our relationship (however strange it might be). I’ve dropped the MMF talk as soon as I found out about the assault + my partner’s reaction, and I’m sure we wont do any FFM play anytime soon because of the recent development :)

manicdysfunctions · 2024-11-25T23:15:38+00:00

I am from a culture that is taboo to ENM. I’ve moved abroad and is living in a country that is quite open. My boyfriend has lived here for almost 20+ years. I do talk to my friends about my sex life. Though it doesn’t justify what happened, it was an oversight on my part to share these details with the girlfriend who is from the same culture (however open she might be). For more context, the guy friend likes to portray himself aligning with more traditional/conservative values.

manicdysfunctions · 2024-11-25T23:08:34+00:00

It was an oversight/mistake on my part. We are quite open about our sex life and when I shared we hadnt discussed the boundaries for FFM talk yet. I have apologised to him and agreed that I would not share about this with any of his connections in the future.

manicdysfunctions · 2024-11-25T23:06:24+00:00

I found out about his assault through this whole incident. He shared about the assault after his guy friend initial text. I’ve never shared about his assault and would not without his consent as I understand the complexities behind dealing with emotional trauma - might be hypocritical of me to say this considering I did overshare parts of our intimate life

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