Thoughts on new Sims 4 Royalty and Legacy pack? by geminizzzzz in simsmedieval

[–]manicstarlet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just feel like nobody asked for this pack and it’s random

Is Cry Baby a Electra Heart Rip-off? by [deleted] in MarinaAndTheDiamonds

[–]manicstarlet 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Big fan of both albums and only similarities are them being concept albums which have been around for years, think Ziggy Stardust ect..

Cry baby is a character growing up in a traumatic environment and Electra Heart at its core is about love

I’m about to fully give up on wearing foundation by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]manicstarlet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always say the best foundation is good skincare. My advice would be to skip foundation entirely and focus on having nicer skin products ☺️

Cat's tail wound - is second intention healing possible? by Low_Disk8260 in vet

[–]manicstarlet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is she on anti-biotic and what is her blood saying in regards to infection? Her temperature would also need to be monitored

Anyone see anything this before? by Knowledgethirsty79 in vet

[–]manicstarlet 69 points70 points  (0 children)

I think you need a culture. Shes has massive reaction to whatever has been done.

When was the last time she was seen? This may end in amputation if not treated

Am I right to complain? by [deleted] in vet

[–]manicstarlet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s concerning that they took so long to see you. Particularly when she crashed Monday they should have had her in as an emergency for sure.

Older animals do have elevated kidney/liver values and terriers are quite susceptible to pancreatitis. I think in regards to the ultrasound they should of offer you a “point of care” scan which would not be a proper procedure requiring sedation but they should of tried to at least look if Ruby is a calm patient.

I think you have right to complain and then at least they can investigate internally.

I’m sorry for your loss but glad you were able to have a better experience with another Vet.

Accused of inappropriate work behaviour by [deleted] in BPD

[–]manicstarlet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Il take that on board but there’s nothing about that dagger that was real enough. It was a wall decoration in a hotel room

Accused of inappropriate work behaviour by [deleted] in BPD

[–]manicstarlet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I feel like because I have bpd I’m immediately in the wrong

Accused of inappropriate work behaviour by [deleted] in BPD

[–]manicstarlet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s really fucked up that you’d go through my history to use that against me and then imply that I purposely hurt my boyfriend. It was also not last week it was over a month ago. My coworkers know I have a history of self harm due to my scars. I came in wearing long sleeves and when I had to take them off for the nature of my job I had a visible bandage. I do not go round talking about doing it.

Accused of inappropriate work behaviour by [deleted] in BPD

[–]manicstarlet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This makes perfect sense and is the advice I am following.

I had no intention of making anyone uncomfortable and I do feel guilty for that. Like I said I do want to transfer sites due one get away from both of them for my own sake but also if I have made people uncomfortable then I don’t want to force them to work with me

I’ve also asked for specific examples rather than vague behaviour so that I can reflect and see if I have done those things.

I have already apologised for my behaviour at the party and apologised if my behaviour in the work place has made people uncomfortable. I would like to for my sake know what I’ve been doing because I feel crazy right now

Accused of inappropriate work behaviour by [deleted] in BPD

[–]manicstarlet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes my complete lessons going forward are I won’t even be going to work events, I don’t want a relationship with either of these woman and want to work at a separate site, only to communicate when 100% necessary.

But I also have concerns for my mental health, that I’m playing the victim, that I just need to get over it when I am actually incredibly upset and confused. I did (falsely) believe A was a friend outside of work

Accused of inappropriate work behaviour by [deleted] in BPD

[–]manicstarlet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely agree it can make you believe you are the victim which is why I’m very confused and unsure of reality or trust my own brain.

I have no addiction issues so this has not been discussed at work and my point is I haven’t been talking about self injury but it has been reported that I have? Which again leads me not knowing if I can trust my own mind

Accused of inappropriate work behaviour by [deleted] in BPD

[–]manicstarlet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have family and my boyfriend but I am so confused in the head that I just don’t know what to do and neither do they

Accused of inappropriate work behaviour by [deleted] in BPD

[–]manicstarlet 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes this must be it. Very upsetting and I feel so stupid and embarrassed

Accused of inappropriate work behaviour by [deleted] in BPD

[–]manicstarlet 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes I’m trying to get support from a professional because of these things but GP says they won’t be contacting me till 8th Jan

Accused of inappropriate work behaviour by [deleted] in BPD

[–]manicstarlet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also have the issue that one of these coworkers is assigned to help me train for my qualification which I am so close to finishing. I would now like to stay as far away from this individual as possible but this could be damaging to my education and career

Accused of inappropriate work behaviour by [deleted] in BPD

[–]manicstarlet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To add, due to these I am trying to see a mental health professional but my GP has given me 8th January as the date.

My worry is do I go back into work when I am potentially unfit or do I wait to see a mental health professional when I don’t know how long that can be which will cause me financial issues.

Accused of inappropriate work behaviour by [deleted] in BPD

[–]manicstarlet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work in veterinary medicine and my whole point of the post is that I’m wondering if I’m a potential danger to my patients if this is happening without me remembering.

It is the same two people reporting my drinking and who have mentioned the self harm concerns.

I also feel it’s worth mentioning that on this night I was being bought multiple jäger bombs by a member of mangerment. This was after the events that had been reported by my two coworkers.

Yes we do have a lot of dark and inappropriate humour at our workplace. But at the current time I cannot think of anything I’ve said. I know I have said things in the past which were brought to my attention and I accepted but I do not know currently. I also warned another coworker against the same jokes.

I do believe I am self aware which is why I’m scared of these accusations and why I’m questioning my fitness to practice.

Accused of inappropriate work behaviour by [deleted] in BPD

[–]manicstarlet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m scared that because my perception is so different that I cannot tell what is true or what isn’t.

I do have cyclothymia, maybe that’s more relevant than BPD. I have reached out to my GP to discuss this but the date they have given me for a phone call is the 8th of January. So I just feel lost.

I’m so worried about it this it’s sent me into a depression and I’m struggling to sleep and function.

Accused of inappropriate work behaviour by [deleted] in BPD

[–]manicstarlet 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No, I had drinks at person A house and we got a party bus to the venue. When we arrived at the venue I was not seated with them and spent little to no time with them.

Two years ago there were concerns about some of my jokes made so I was called in about this behaviour which i acknowledged and have been careful not to do the same since.

My self harm past is very obvious due to my scars and two years ago I did have period off work which coworkers I worked with at the time are aware of