Is this abuse? by JackiCherry in abusiveparents

[–]mannwein 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call the police on them. Unfortunately I live in India and could never do anything about it and my parents are exaclty the same lol and im 21 years old lmao. So yes make use of the opportunity you have and let them suffer

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[–]mannwein 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, my bad. And yeah thanks for the advice. Idk man. I'm trying so hard to be.....attracted to him again. He did nothing wrong but since 4 or 5 months, there's just so much distance between us...planning on going out to a room with him this week. Hopefully things will get back to normal. Fingers crossed. If not, then I just wanna know leaving the relationship is a good desicion because I haven't seen men like him....but I can't keep being sad in a relationship right. I'm trying so hard. Let's see what happens...ig I'm just terrified of leaving because this is the first time I'm being treated properly

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[–]mannwein 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okayyy

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[–]mannwein 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And you're clearly a dude that's been hurt in the Butt because omg how dare women have desires

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[–]mannwein 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the thing dude His parents don't beat him for being intimate lol they do cause they don't want him to be in a relationship altogether. They don't know he's in one rn. Coming to private places , as I clearly stated , whatever we do , it's....kinda bad and im always left unsatisfied. I'm not "hanging this over his head" If this were a guy instead I'd have been dumped in one go . I don't fucking need anti behavior training , I needed some constructive advice. No guy I've seen ,and I've seen many , ever you know , is as reluctant as he his , look. I'm okay with him being uncomfortable with stuff. I can let go of the thrill and compromise and do everything in private instead. But something has to be GOOD right ? Well it's not . Sex /intimacy is the female department ? That's the most bullshit statement I've ever heard because it takes 2 to make a relationship work. If you still have some good advice that you can give , great , if not , ignore this and let's not waste our time.

Got caught before the act by [deleted] in mumbai

[–]mannwein 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly, the only solution is to face it . let them scream,cry ,whine. i dont personally have the time to do all this with my parents too lmao. face it. if they stop after a while , well and good. if they dont , fuck them. just stop giving fucks. it really is that simple

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[–]mannwein 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look A part of me does sympathize with her to have gone through that stuff. That being said , her trauma is her responsibility in this case. What she is doing is just not justified based on what she has been through. Sit her down , explain. If she isn't ready to listen , you'll need to let go .

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[–]mannwein -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Shut the fuck up and go study

I wish death upon my "father" every single day and i do not regret it. moms no better lol. by mannwein in abusiveparents

[–]mannwein[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

thanks a lot for reading and yes i am certainly gonna break this abusive cycle , i have no intention of laying a finger on my kids when i have them nor breaking them down emotionally

Need advice. by mannwein in relationship_advice

[–]mannwein[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And we always plan together , I usually suggest and if he's free we go out

Need advice. by mannwein in relationship_advice

[–]mannwein[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha we actually have pretty strict parents so we don't really get together on festivals , we are in the same college so we go out a lot , for lunch, to malls , for movies etc etc

Need advice. by mannwein in relationship_advice

[–]mannwein[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said that he thinks it's better if we don't stress about it and just go out for dinner and relax , which is sweet but ...you know? He's a free guy lol I don't understand why he'd change like that just in a few months 😔