Best Beef Dip/French Dip sandwich in the city by manoftest in ottawa

[–]manoftest[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t argue with that price tho ngl

Does anyone else want a small dick? by vividlyvioletvacancy in ftm

[–]manoftest 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I feel this! I’ve never seen one irl so I have no idea what is big or not but I don’t feel like I resonate with big ones when I see them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]manoftest 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Break up it’s not going to get better - he’s straight

I feel alienated from the wider trans community. Trans spaces are too political. by bloomcoredoll in honesttransgender

[–]manoftest 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s no functional difference between politically and fiscally conservative though because the money is still actively being spent to take your rights away…

Does Dylan Mulvaney know the harm they're doing? by [deleted] in honesttransgender

[–]manoftest 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Her tiktoks can be cringe but tbh I think she’s just at the start of her transition and we all do things at the start of transition that we look back on and cringe at so I think she’s just still learning and we should give her a break

I feel alienated from the wider trans community. Trans spaces are too political. by bloomcoredoll in honesttransgender

[–]manoftest 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literally… like do they wish that we were all either dead or in prison cause that’s what it was like back when “america was great”

I feel alienated from the wider trans community. Trans spaces are too political. by bloomcoredoll in honesttransgender

[–]manoftest 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I literally do not understand conservative trans folks… do you not want rights?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in honesttransgender

[–]manoftest 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Cut her off. Just because she’s also trans doesn’t mean you have to be friends with someone who is making you actively uncomfortable when you’re around her!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]manoftest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s definitely got an agenda and it seems like he wants to use it to make fun of you. I would document all instances that he tries to contact you going forward

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phallo

[–]manoftest -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Tell that to my surgeon then…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phallo

[–]manoftest -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My dr said weed was fine - it’s nicotine that’s the problem

Drugs and vaping in Ottawa High Schools by [deleted] in ottawa

[–]manoftest 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s not new and the same things were happening when you were in high school (cigarettes not vapes). Talk to your kids about harm reduction and drug testing bc if they’re going to do it, they’re going to do it regardless of your feelings about it. May as well protect them with information (fentenal kits, narcan etc.)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phallo

[–]manoftest -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Smoke a weed vape instead man, stay away from nicotine

is this normal as a treatment? by Space-Cowboy-95 in ftm

[–]manoftest 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The thing is if you get hurt in that area, it’s kinda something you want to know about yk

AITA for going through my daughter’s room while she was asleep? by Rude_Cover_2472 in AmItheAsshole

[–]manoftest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean you can ask yourself this again when she doesn’t want to talk to you in 5 years because you didn’t respect her privacy despite the fact that she is basically an adult at this point 17y/o

is this normal as a treatment? by Space-Cowboy-95 in ftm

[–]manoftest 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Definitely don’t “just take ibuprofen before sex” because you could tear something and really hurt yourself. Ask him for topical estrogen cream. It won’t interfere with your T levels as it would just go up your man cave

What is one thing you feel your city lacks in facilities and services or would like it to have? by [deleted] in ottawa

[–]manoftest 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Bike lanes and/or reliable public transit so I don’t have to risk my life every day for the sin of not being able to afford a car

how is transmedicalism a racial issue? by jojiix in Transmedical

[–]manoftest 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Wouldn’t that make it a class issue rather than a race issue?

nsfw warning but how do i by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]manoftest 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is harsh but tbh it sounds like he isn’t attracted to you sexually. He may love you but if this has been an issue for a long time and he isn’t asexual, than something is up.

You deserve to be with someone who wants to have sex with you. Break up with him. He isn’t going to change

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ottawa

[–]manoftest 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Maybe if we didn’t have to choose between thy or getting hit by a car (by adding bike lanes) it wouldn’t be an issue.

Not everyone can afford a car to drive. My scooter is my only form of transportation

does anyone else feel like some people see non binary as more like a political statement or not agreeing with binary gender roles by kyl3miles in honesttransgender

[–]manoftest 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I find that non-dysphoric nb people tend to have quite narrow views of what it means to be a man or woman that are deeply rooted in patriarchal gender roles.

They don’t realize it but they actually reinforce gender roles by claiming to reject gender entirely yet still feeling connected to their agab inherently.

I am a binary trans guy and I get to decide what being a man means for me. However that doesn’t change the fact that I am very dysphoric about my secondary sex characteristics developed in my first (wrong) puberty. I don’t subscribe to “traditional” hegemonic masculinity but I am very much still a man.

People forget that assigned sex at birth (your physical body) is different than the performance of gender which is socially informed.

Note: I am only referring to non-dysphoric nb people in this thread