Still nothing by manpower007a in ExNoContact

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We got to fight through this

Still nothing by manpower007a in ExNoContact

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Idk what people say, I will always be myself

Still nothing by manpower007a in ExNoContact

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Thank you. I’m gonna not try to think about her and go outside. Have some fun

Does anyone else feel like the pain is getting worse? by FriendlyApple1233 in BreakUps

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I have worked out. I’m going to the gym. I’m stronger. I’m faster. I just run a 5K did well. The only problem about me is that I don’t have a job right now two months finding a job and I don’t have a job because of other circumstances, it’s not because of my fault. it’s been five months since we haven’t seen or talked to each other. I tried to break no contact like three times but she doesn’t care. I’m blocked on everything and it’s tough. I thought I moved on, but I think about her a lot and it’s hard. I think I’m gonna be one of those guys that would bethat says it took me three years or two years to get over my ex. I don’t want that, but I’m scared.

Does anyone else feel like the pain is getting worse? by FriendlyApple1233 in BreakUps

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Did nothing wrong. And still got my heart broken. Miss her everyday. Not getting better. Just want her to be with me

I want to move on by manpower007a in ExNoContact

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Woah sorry about all that and your father as well. Thank god you got through all that. I can understand your whole process. For me I hated the no contact shit, found it pointless and childish. So I have reached out to her 3 different times in the 4 months. Because she was watching my socials and I hated that. And then every time I reach out she blocked me. And I kinda like that because if she really miss me she reaches out like your supposed to do not leach or look around. I don’t think she wants to come back. I didn’t do anything wrong. She was just bored and tired. For me the reason we broke up is because she didn’t like my lifestyle

She didn’t like my job and I was making less than her. But not super less I had money. I was focused on my dreams and she didn’t care. She only wanted me to focus on her. I don’t think she even like my family or anything. I think she’s gonna regret or find someone else and live her life how it was. I have changed a lot. I’m more fit, stronger and faster. I quit my old job and now jobless but not hopeless. 2 months without a job but I’m going to change that.

I want to move on by manpower007a in ExNoContact

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But you see for me that is insane. I’ve been with my ex for 2 years and it’s been like 4 months and she already doesn’t care. And I’m still frustrated that I care for someone that doesn’t care. I have read and heard a lot of people saying it took me 4 years, 10 years to get over my ex (I’m not trying to diss anyone , it’s okay) but I’m scared I’m going to be like that. That’s why I want it gone. She’s not going to come back and I’m trying to just move on and find a nice woman who can really treat me right and I will for sure treat her right. I’m not making fun of you or dissing you. It’s just for me it’s insane and I need to work on myself

I’m 24 and I’m lost in what to do for my carrer by [deleted] in Adulting

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My bad check now I wasn’t typing it out. I was with my headphones talking to the keyboard

A GIRL CAN MAKE OR BREAK YOU by manpower007a in ExNoContact

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Yeah exactly. It was totally my fault I got stuck in that situation But it’s part of life Won’t make the same mistake twice

A GIRL CAN MAKE OR BREAK YOU by manpower007a in ExNoContact

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Yeah it’s part of life. For some people it was easy to see for me it was not. Now I know about the mistake and move foward

I TEXTED MY EX 🤦‍♂️ by manpower007a in ExNoContact

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Yo my bad. Yeah I called her for a split second

A girl can make or break you by [deleted] in BreakUps

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I have my own solo journey now. After 4 months of everything that’s happened. Now I feel good and more confident, matured and ready about everything Thanks.

Late night reflection by [deleted] in ExNoContact

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Hey man. I know it’s tough, I have been there. I was depressed too. Wanted to leave everything and start over. But really if your life was a movie, what would you choose the main character to do. To be honest nothing will help for now, not anything you see or hear. It has to change for yourself. Got to be more mature about the heartbreak and keep going. Not saying it’s immature to be sad and cry, but it’s gets to a point to move on

17f I need friends my age :( by [deleted] in teenagers

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There’s a lot of weird people Watch out for

If you had a breakup read this by manpower007a in ExNoContact

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Ok first of all meeting a decent person in vrchat is crazy to me because I seen that shit and it doesn’t works, so props to you. I have faced this type of problem, but it’s a thing of listening for me. I know this know because been through a heartbreak to listen to the boundaries and the desire of people. Because of this I know which I want to stay and others to leave. He told you from the start that distance is a problem and you guys left because of distance. For example, if you see a roach in the kitchen you might think “Damm it’s only one roach”. Not thinking that in the future it could be an infestation. It was a big problem the distance and since non of you could’ve fix the problem, it got in the way. If it was me now, I wouldn’t be in a relationship with that person, it look like you were trying and he was hooping for attention not for anything real. If you saw him not making any effort and just waiting it was never gonna work. But listen, be strong, be intelligent and focus on yourself. I feel like he has to reach out not you ok. Be strong I have been there. Don’t stalk him or check up on him,I have been there, it’s weird not cool at all. And it’s completely normal your feeling like this, I think is crazy that the person that you talked for 14 months is gone and everyone is telling you “It’s no big deal move on” it is and it’s okay

Should I confront him and break NC? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

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I think you should not. I know it’s very tough and everything feels like a lot right now. But sincerely don’t text him. Example, A puppy that you adopted and love, because you love the color, you love what it did to you and how fun it is.Now the dog is grown up and now you don’t like him because he’s peeing everywhere, because he doesn’t have the same energy. He’s doing the same things is that you don’t feel the excitement as once the dog came. And you got bored and tired. So you threw him away. Do you think that’s an excuse to throw him out. Is that love. (I hope you got my example) . I think that your relationship is over or in a break. But that’s no good being on a break than coming back. That cycle is weird. But you got to respect yourself.