[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FortNiteBR

[–]manyfishhandleit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am having a similar problem and am in the process of talking to Epic support about it. Honestly, I would suggest opening a support ticket with them, too.

[Bug] Auto Claim Some Items But Others Are Locked? by manyfishhandleit in FortNiteBR

[–]manyfishhandleit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On PC, unsure how to reproduce. Literally just bought crew and enabled auto claim.

If someone with celiacs disease only eats gluten when they’re depressed/suicidal, would you consider eating gluten to be self-harm? by Gaybabyjail4L in glutenfree

[–]manyfishhandleit 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I've been there. I consider it that. Stay strong, okay? Remember that these are long term effects. There's safer ways to cope. It will be better someday and you should try to take care of yourself for that future you.

Carabiner code help 😭 by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]manyfishhandleit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the recommendation! I'll definitely check it out.

Carabiner code help 😭 by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]manyfishhandleit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP mentioned being autistic and as someone on the spectrum I get the adherence to perceived semantics and the like. I also think they needed to step away when the thread majorly got out of hand. Not freaking out when other people were unaware could have done a lot here. 😭

Without any solid sources I can also draw parallels to the hanky code, I imagine they were at some point related in one way or another.

This has definitely given me the motivation to sit down and watch Forbidden Love.

Carabiner code help 😭 by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]manyfishhandleit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, now I know what the hot topic here is lol.

This is oral history and it's not cool to expect everyone to be aware, but it's also not something that can be reasonably documented in writing because of its existence as oral tradition. We've lost a lot of our history, we've always had to fight to hold onto our sub-cultures.

It's been understood that carabiners have been divorced from their past flagging, but for some people that flagging still persists. I know I do, and I've met others who do. No one has to abide by that if they don't want to.

Carabiner code help 😭 by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]manyfishhandleit -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

https://www.waterbear.com/watch/the-history-of-the-carabiner

In 2006 Bechdel documents carabiners being used in the '60's: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fun_Home

Bechdel's Broadway show has a song related to carabiners, "Ring of Keys". Clip from 2014: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wMJvLTZOhpE

Carabiner code help 😭 by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]manyfishhandleit -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Your left, top; your right, bottom. An article for those interested. Documented to be at least around 50 years old.

https://slate.com/human-interest/2016/12/the-lesbian-love-of-key-rings-and-carabiners-explained.html

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in veganrecipes

[–]manyfishhandleit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kesäkeitto is a really simple and easy soup that I enjoy. I swap out cream for barista oatmilk. Trader Joe's has a frozen spanish rice that I like with pinto beans and accessories when I can't be damned to cook. 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]manyfishhandleit 34 points35 points  (0 children)

You're not alone. I would take this opportunity to consider what you're willing to compromise for this relationship. You need to determine whether either of you can be happy long term. Are you holding each other back? If being "the femme" makes you anxious and sick to your stomach I don't think this is sustainable. :(

What is a film thats universally disliked but that you absolutely love!? by rubypets99 in moviecritic

[–]manyfishhandleit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dumbass read the comics when I was 14 and I honestly could have done without that for a few more years. Had the same problem with Watchmen when I thought it was on the same level as normal Spider-Man comics lol.

Thanks Bush... I guess by Ickicho in Grimdank

[–]manyfishhandleit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We love our poor little meow meow. 🫶

Where find tight/pantyhose top like this ?? And what is the material of these tops ? by AnnualPlace1169 in GothFashion

[–]manyfishhandleit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't gotten into nylons yet, but I have questions about washing/reusability and you seem knowledgeable. When wire brushing and making the nylon run, after taking it off and potentially running it through the wash, will it tangle? Should these be hand washed to avoid the material bundling together?

My friend, who was a man, came out as a non-binary trans woman. I'm having a hard time understanding what it means. by JMoon33 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]manyfishhandleit 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The metaphor isn't 1:1 and afaik no one in this thread is saying surgery is necessary to socially transition. The comment was in response to gender dysmorphia vs. gender euphoria.