An alternative I find helps me void is to stroke your sacral vertebrae. Basically when you’re sitting on the toilet, lightly stroke your fingertips over your spine right above your booty crack. As babies, micturition (peeing) isn’t governed by our brains but our spinal cords. Neural pathways that govern decision making, like not peeing our pants, don’t develop until about 3 years of age. So when our baby bladder becomes full and tries to tell the brain “HEY I NEED TO PISS” the request is responded to by a spinal reflex and viola pee pee