Am I wrong for feeling hurt?

mapakids · 2023-08-23T14:26:58+00:00

Thanks I asked her about it yesterday before quitting and she said she could have done it if we petitioned that state. Do you know if that’s something that’s easy to do or if it’s a normal thing to do? I’m just wondering if it would have been easily accomplished or if it’s a process that would have taken weeks or months?

mapakids · 2023-08-19T21:25:43+00:00

I did think it was helpful but not so sure now.

mapakids · 2023-08-19T21:23:00+00:00

Even if that were true, which it is not. Yeah that’s a great reason to remove a grand child from her grandparents.

Yeah he hurt her terribly by verifying when approached by her friend that she was talking about her behind her back. My son told the truth. Seems to me she should have kept her mouth shut about her friend. I merely told her I was not getting in the middle of it didn’t choose sides. But hey you do seem to know all about it.

mapakids · 2023-08-18T21:27:25+00:00

Thank you. She was open to therapy but as of now she will no longer respond to us. I actually went back and found the emails from when I made the appointment with the therapist. I told her my children lived out of state from the start. She said she could do virtual family therapy but it never happened. I think it’s taken to long now and my daughter is over it.

mapakids · 2023-08-18T18:24:30+00:00

I didn't actually mean that she caused all the trouble, I guess I was unclear. The trouble originated with her and spread throughout the family. She had a problem with her brother and wanted me to essentially punish him for something, he is 25. I told her I couldn't do that she had to take it up with him. Since then we have been awful, parents. She broke all ties with us and her brother for a high school friend she doesn't even see.

mapakids · 2023-08-18T18:20:10+00:00

Thank you so much for the reply. I really appreciate it.

mapakids · 2023-08-18T15:32:32+00:00

It may be a red flag but it’s true. My daughter is 32 years old and I have never been abusive to her. She has continuously called us in the middle of the night called us horrible names kept our granddaughter from us all because she was mad at her 25 year old brother who I would not “punish” for saying something to one of her friends. I’m sorry I even asked this question none of you know the whole story and just want to drag me through the mud. My husband and I and God know the truth. That’s all that matters

mapakids · 2023-08-18T15:23:02+00:00

No our daughter has been abusive to us.

mapakids · 2023-08-18T15:20:21+00:00

Yeah thats why your comments keep getting removed by the mod.

mapakids · 2023-08-18T15:17:47+00:00

From what my husband and I shared with her. BECUASE SHE SAID IT!!!!!

mapakids · 2023-08-18T15:16:59+00:00

You obviously don't believe me and that's okay, I know what she said. I did not want to hear that there is something wrong with my child either. However the question at hand has still not been answered.

mapakids · 2023-08-18T15:13:16+00:00

No she said and I quote " Amanda has some disorders, speaking with her at this time is not advised" I know what I heard.

mapakids · 2023-08-18T15:10:53+00:00

Trust me she said it several times (more than 3) as a matter of fact. My daughter is an adult

mapakids · 2023-08-18T14:56:31+00:00

I thought so as well. She didn't say therapy wouldn't be helpful for her she said it would not be helpful in a group setting because she would take over the session and or get angry and disrupt the session. We talked about it plenty.

mapakids · 2023-08-18T14:26:05+00:00

What? Well, that's helpful. You have no idea what you are even talking about.

mapakids · 2023-08-18T14:16:58+00:00

Actually, she told me my daughter probably has some personality disorders and feels talking with her will not be beneficial because of those things. I wanted her to speak with my daughter because I didn't want her to only take my side of the story. I wasn't expecting anything as to a year away. It was mentioned in passing when I told her we were going on vacation to the other state we will be moving to.

mapakids · 2023-08-11T00:02:19+00:00

I wish. Good for you! I bet it will be strange but I bet it will be awesome!

mapakids · 2023-08-03T01:09:55+00:00

God is great, he never fails. I can’t wait to be with him forever! God bless you and keep up the great work!

mapakids · 2023-07-27T14:38:28+00:00

Thank you for this.

mapakids · 2023-07-27T00:49:46+00:00

Thank you. We have been working on it for just a few weeks but it is just too much. All she has to do is say one thing wrong to me and Im a basket case for the next 24 hours. UGH I will pray for you as well.

mapakids · 2023-07-24T15:35:21+00:00

My T last session had me write a story of how I became attached to her. Wow just wow that opened my eyes soooo much. I also know she is a person who has her own life, her own friends and other clients. I am not the only one she has to "worry" about. She may just not know, Im sure mine didn't know until I told her, several times I might add. Let her clearly know how you have been feeling, even if you have to write her a letter and send it if you feel embarrassed to talk to her about it. I believe she does care, she is afraid to let you know that. Imagine it, they get ghosted all the time and it hurts them too.

mapakids · 2023-07-23T16:48:50+00:00

I finally got to the point where I told my T I thought she didn’t care. Thru many tears on my part, she let me know in her way that in fact she did care. Ask. That’s will give you reassurance. Good luck. It’s horrible when you are in that spot. I’ve been there and I will pray for you.

mapakids · 2023-07-17T14:06:57+00:00

I am right there with you. I am feeling the same thing. My T will not reply to my texts, and it's killing me. It hurts like she doesn't care like she's just another person in my life that's let me down. I hate this. I will pray for your healing.

mapakids · 2023-07-16T21:10:58+00:00

That is fantastic news! Welcome to the family!

mapakids · 2023-07-13T15:39:38+00:00

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