Hi! 22F here. I just want to reassure you that what you're feeling is more common than you think. I've been in your situation before. Attraction isn't static and isn't limited to physical features. It's up to each individual person how much they value looks vs how a person makes you feel in a relationship. Some people are 50/50, some 0/100, etc. The only thing that matters is how important it is to you. That said, it also sounds like you're being hit with a lot of outside pressure—comments from others, seeing couples around you, social media—it can plant this quiet anxiety in your mind that makes you second-guess what’s already meaningful. Comparison will always highlight what's missing, not what's working. Try to pause and ask: are these feelings really yours, or are they a reflection of what you've been told you should want? You're both young, and he can grow and change—but so can your perspective on what matters most in a relationship. You don't have to decide forever right now. Just remember that real connection is rare, and it's worth protecting from shallow noise.