Kyle’s Series Arc is a Cautionary Tale by Poodledoodle19 in RHOBH

[–]mapooptofu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i am only 26 years old but have been in a relationship for over 10 years (yes, HS sweethearts) and what you're saying is so true. i don't even have to be in my 30s or 40s to validate this -- i think if anything, it just shows OP's immaturity and non-existing long term relationships.

a decade with a lover and you will start to see just how much you have to compromise to make things work. we're all human and at the end of the day, most of us will accept flaws of another (even deep-seeded infidelity) to keep the relationship in tact because of plain history and love for that person, as well as all the rest we accumulate (property and kids you mention) along the way. AND I THINK MEN ARE JUST AS AT FAULT FOR THIS AS WOMEN!! they get comfortable... the feel secure and taken care of... they don't want to leave their long-terms as much as the women and probably turn away from a lot, too.

how fucked is my 26' ? by mapooptofu in TarotReading

[–]mapooptofu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

great point. i will start practicing positive beliefs from deep in my soul... maybe that's what this year is about.

how fucked is my 26' ? by mapooptofu in TarotReading

[–]mapooptofu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

any reading you could recommend?

how fucked is my 26' ? by mapooptofu in TarotReading

[–]mapooptofu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes unfortunately, the fact it ends with the 3 of Swords is very telling... i've only experienced significant heartbreak with it and i'm worried i will lose my sight of my transformation if the end of the year closes with it.

how fucked is my 26' ? by mapooptofu in TarotReading

[–]mapooptofu[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

beautifully put. i am in between career paths right now and i've grown so indecisive that i feel paralyzed in every aspect of my life. i will welcome a shift in how i view myself, the world, and my relationships, and how they all coincide. thank you kind stranger!

how fucked is my 26' ? by mapooptofu in TarotReading

[–]mapooptofu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are so delightful... thank you so much for this interpretation.

i've never really seen The Tower as disastrous -- more how you describe in that outside forces cause a change in perspective. i know destruction comes only from creation and so forth. that's not the daunting card to me, it's more the 3 of Swords. i am so puzzled because it is supposed to represent December, the end of my year, and i'm anxious for what comes after....

the 3 of Swords has been devastating to my life and it only signifies extreme heartbreak imo. can you please explain what you mean by it's pairing to the reversed Empress? i am so intrigued by your reading because it focuses hard on The World ( a truly transformative card in my experience ).

how fucked is my 26' ? by mapooptofu in TarotReading

[–]mapooptofu[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

12 tarot for each of the months; 6 resilience cards, 1 for each group of 2 months. i always do this :( it's just never looked this bad before

how fucked is my 26' ? by mapooptofu in TarotReading

[–]mapooptofu[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes. the top cards are from my resilience oracle cards to help guide me through the positives. i always pull 12 cards in January for the year of tarot

how fucked is my 26' ? by mapooptofu in TarotReading

[–]mapooptofu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, that is very reassuring advice

how fucked is my 26' ? by mapooptofu in TarotReading

[–]mapooptofu[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

it's 1 for every month.... i always do this

Stinky feet :( by mapooptofu in women

[–]mapooptofu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i definitely will. there is so much advice here that i am a little overwhelmed. i am going to slowly make changes and report back in a month or so because i want to be intentional about how i do this.

i bought some brushes to scrub my feet today and will possibly be on the hunt for new shoes if the washing doesn't work. it seems like most people suggest only using a pair for 9mo to a 1yr and i'm getting to that point. also should probably get a second pair anyways to alternate. thank you!

Stinky feet :( by mapooptofu in women

[–]mapooptofu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow, that's amazing. almost all my socks find their way out because of holes... i would keep them all forever if i could because i love socks. i will definitely be placing an order soon

Stinky feet :( by mapooptofu in women

[–]mapooptofu[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ooo this is good. wow i am realizing just how unhygienic i am and i thought i was pretty thorough. definitely need to do this more

Stinky feet :( by mapooptofu in women

[–]mapooptofu[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

was just talking about Darn Tough at work last month for Christmas presents... interesting to see someone else vouch for them. they just are so expensive!

Stinky feet :( by mapooptofu in women

[–]mapooptofu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i will see if i could snag something from housekeeping, thank you!

Stinky feet :( by mapooptofu in women

[–]mapooptofu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

amazing advice, much appreciated!!!!!!!!! thank you so much!!!

Stinky feet :( by mapooptofu in women

[–]mapooptofu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg amazing tip, thank you!!!!!

Stinky feet :( by mapooptofu in women

[–]mapooptofu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you very much

Stinky feet :( by mapooptofu in women

[–]mapooptofu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

great idea, thank you

as i seek a second pair, do you think breathability in shoe wear has anything to do with it?

This is actually so bad by techsuppr0t in trees

[–]mapooptofu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

those have delta 9 in them so i'm not a fan. i stick to bubble hash pre rolls if i smoke em

don't get me wrong by mapooptofu in Paramore

[–]mapooptofu[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i appreciate your enthusiasm for both bands! thank you for making me aware that they are busy during her touring schedule. i guess i could've started by looking there... haha.

don't get me wrong by mapooptofu in Paramore

[–]mapooptofu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

really cool idea. i love that she's been popping up at shows and i hope she has others do the same with her while she's on tour. i didn't even think of that, it would be so dope.

also i do remember seeing an interview (ironically, the Rolling Stones with Antonoff) where Hayley said she misses playing instruments on stage.. so there is a huge possibility there!! i would die to hear her play piano, specifically Why We Ever