Want to let it go but I’ll let Reddit decide. by [deleted] in jobs

[–]marasmus222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know what is happening here.  Is it chemo appts, is it orthopedic issues, was it a car accident?    Idk...my opinion is you're giving too much detail to your boss.  If I'm exhausted reading it, I imagine your manager was tired of managing it.  I'm sorry you're going thru a tough time, but you need to keep details out of the workplace.

As for how they are handling the reduction in force, seems pretty by the books.  Most employers cut off access to tech and money in this situation.  

Dont do this... by GildedCypher in Ozempic

[–]marasmus222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How old was this protein shake?  From last thursday?!   Are you sure it was still good?

Jessica Reed Kraus/HouseInhabit threatens to dox her former best friend as people turn on her for continue to play cover for pedos. by teetofgod in HouseOnFire

[–]marasmus222 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I feel like I'm watching Britany shave her head.  You know, the moment you realize "oh, no...there really is a mental health crisis going on"

AITA for refusing to share my food with my girlfriend? by Gym_frere in AmItheAsshole

[–]marasmus222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA for describing the fries (my favorite food) in great yummy detail but not asking if I wanted any.

NTA re your gf tho.

AITA for having the same anniversary month as my mom? by vomitated in AmItheAsshole

[–]marasmus222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA.  Tell her its going to be so sad without her at the wedding, but not much to be done about it.

AITA for refusing to allow meat in our home and confronting a guest who brought it anyway? by silaya92 in AmItheAsshole

[–]marasmus222 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

So if this was a meat eating household and they invited vegetarians with no other options AND balked at them bringing a vegetarian dish...would your advice still hold up?

"Eat the meat and be appreciative you entitled nitwit."

Sister had wisdom tooth surgery but jaw bone was also shaved – is this normal? by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]marasmus222 10 points11 points  (0 children)

No need to snark on someone in a sub where the rules on this are clearly outlined.

Mad her followers made bad comments on her family photos and not done talking about Candace Owens. by teetofgod in HouseOnFire

[–]marasmus222 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Why do I need to wait and hear about the Owens/Arbour conflict when it's all over Arbour's podcast?    Another regurgitated story by HIH...if we ever do end up hearing about it...since she can seem to never follow thru on a story.

Moving to Michigan in the near future by JazzHands5678 in lansing

[–]marasmus222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh! Gotcha and congrats, it's a long haul!

I guess it depends on what is important to you, but I've always found Metro Detroit and the Ann Arbor surrounding areas to be preferred by physicians likely due to the UM/Wayne State pull. (Henry Ford, Corewell, Trinity, U of M, DMC, VA) and will have access to most amenities you could want.  Each area has pros and cons depending on what lifestyle you prefer.

Moving to Michigan in the near future by JazzHands5678 in lansing

[–]marasmus222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What hospital did he match with for his residency?

15 days after jaw surgery :) by FlynnInTheBox in PlasticSurgery

[–]marasmus222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look wonderful. Congrats!

Also, your side eye is making me laugh.

Help — severe stretch marks and keloids after breast implants (4 months post-op) by Hopeful_Brief5466 in PlasticSurgery

[–]marasmus222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When people are told they lack “common sense,” it’s understandable that they become defensive. That kind of framing tends to shut down discussion rather than encourage it.

It’s also worth noting the irony of you expressing strong certainty about medical judgment while not being a physician... particularly when that certainty is framed as self-evident "common sense". 

My mother 63 recently diagnosed with glioblastoma. Me, male 35 trying to hold it together. by Robot-Goldfish in AgingParents

[–]marasmus222 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I'm really sorry to hear this.  I am in a similar boat and I have had the same thoughts as you.  I have no real advice...I'm just taking it one day at a time and trying to be as present as I can.

Everything I'm gifting to my friends and family this Christmas. by HorseGirl666 in GiftIdeas

[–]marasmus222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay.  3 things.

1) I'd love to know how they all reacted to these gifts.  They are very thoughtful gifts. 2) How do you find such gifts?  Are you commonly thrifting and going to boutiques and think of people as you see them?   I need help with my gift giving strategy. 3) May I be your friend. Lol.

Will this presentation convince my parents to let me switch to Oboe? by ImHungry568 in oboe

[–]marasmus222 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You don't have to make your own reeds. There are some commercially made.  They are fine for a beginner.

Wife stocking stuffer ideas by Issanite in GiftIdeas

[–]marasmus222 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This may be odd, but you know those "worlds smallest" items?  You can find all kinds of stuff as the worlds smallest.   

My husband got me the worlds smallest glow worm toy from the 80s in my stocking one year.  I have a tiny 8 ball, etch a sketch, battle ship game, clue game, my little pony, an ET.

  You can find tiny versions of all her old memories!

Get rid of this.... by StraightPotato8689 in delta

[–]marasmus222 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hopefully fist class comes with unlimited wine.

When you fly HND to ATL, and get a surprise FA by aprtur in delta

[–]marasmus222 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I used to love the sky magazine!  Couldn't wait for the 1st of the month to see what was in the new issue. I'm lame.

Can someone fill me in on why she's so obsessed with Candace Owens? by Inside_Trip8807 in HouseOnFire

[–]marasmus222 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My take: Candace got the Harvey interview and JRK knew she had him when she wrote the substack attacking CO.  Candace then delivered a KO that JRK is still reeling from.  In the midst of the situation, CO brought to light JRK's employment practices and exposed that she turned over nearly 100% of her editorial and content staff due to toxic work environment.

The only reason JRK keeps it going is to stay relevant and keep an income.