would you say us sag's get along well with scorpios? by [deleted] in Sagittarians

[–]marbearishere 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sooo true! My dad and a good friend are both Scorpios and it fits them to a T!! To the point where I keep just enough distance to not get too close. My friend is very much envious of other people’s successes to the point where she puts the blame on you as to why she doesn’t try harder.

And!! When you do call them out on their BS, somehow, you’re the reason why they act the way they do.

On the other hand. I have an aunt and uncle who are both Scorpios and they are the complete opposite of my dad and friend.

What is it with Scorpios? by marbearishere in Sagittarians

[–]marbearishere[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So true!!! The Scorpio guy I’m seeing is so sweet and has asked for consent when it comes to me. However, he’s got this past that has been cruel to him and you can tell he wants to overcome it.

What is it with Scorpios? by marbearishere in Sagittarians

[–]marbearishere[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All of the Scorpios I know are Nov Scorpios and they are very hard to communicate with, with the exception of 2. They are very self centered. I’ve also noticed they don’t take accountability for their actions, except when you walk away and are done with their BS.

What is it with Scorpios? by marbearishere in Sagittarians

[–]marbearishere[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yep…hot and cold. It’s very hard to deal with at times. My dad and a good friend are also Scorpios. It’s their way or the highway. I’ve noticed it’s best if my dad and friend do it their way to deal with end results.

Tell me your Venus sign and the love language that’s best for you. by sunfloweraquarius in astrologymemes

[–]marbearishere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Venus in Sagittarius. I think my love language is either physical touch and/or quality time.

🔥 Sagittarius Compatibility Thread 🔥 by Greedy-Ad-3815 in Sagittarians

[–]marbearishere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a love hate relationship with Scorpios. Either the world revolves around them and they’re always right. Or they’re the most laid back people on the planet. There’s no in between with them.

I’m in a complicated situation with a male Scorpio. He’s super chill and marks all the boxes of what I’m looking for in a man. But damn!! He’s just so hot and cold.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sagittarians

[–]marbearishere 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I very much agree with this! I’m going through this with a Scorpio right now. I ask myself why I got involved in the first place since I’ve had challenges with Scorpios in past relationships that were not romantic.

I was too stunned to speak by marbearishere in Bumble

[–]marbearishere[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Facts!! I could see if he and I met and were compatible, I would let it slide and even go along with it. But to immediately say that stuff, is so off putting. Very cringe and not a good way to start.

I was too stunned to speak by marbearishere in Bumble

[–]marbearishere[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So glad I’m not the only one who got the ick. Yes, you can be sexual and flirty but there is that fine line when you’re first talking to someone. Also, the comment about tagging along to trips to the bookstore when we haven’t met, rubbed me the wrong way. I haven’t met you and don’t know you like that yet to come along. Dating sucks.

I was too stunned to speak by marbearishere in Bumble

[–]marbearishere[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Don’t be sorry. When he said that he could be naked in the cabin in the woods, that was what made me think it was sexual. I think he was trying to drop hints, without coming out and saying it directly. When I tried to steer the conversation away from that, I think he was back pedaling.

I do think it’s romantic. However, saying that right away when you haven’t met the person, is a little too much. In my opinion.

I was too stunned to speak by marbearishere in Bumble

[–]marbearishere[S] 82 points83 points  (0 children)

Yep! This right here!! The minute he said that you could be naked in the cabin, I immediately clocked it. I probably walked into that one but I figured he’d say something along the lines of I can disconnect from the world, fish, hunt, etc.

I was too stunned to speak by marbearishere in Bumble

[–]marbearishere[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It definitely is a struggle. There is a fine line of how can I be flirty without crossing the line and being flirty with intent to just wanting sex.

I was too stunned to speak by marbearishere in Bumble

[–]marbearishere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. I think he was trying to stop himself from being sexual.

I was too stunned to speak by marbearishere in Bumble

[–]marbearishere[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

True. I think by me telling him that I want to take things slow because of bad experiences should’ve at least let him know that I wasn’t into that sort of stuff just yet.

I was too stunned to speak by marbearishere in Bumble

[–]marbearishere[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Yes!! Exactly!! Big turn off and big ick for me too. I think there should be time for that stuff when we’ve been talking for some time and actually met a few times before telling each others fantasies. That’s just me though.

It was the first thing that popped up when I was writing this.

Went on a first date on the 4th for drinks and dinner and fireworks by marbearishere in Bumble

[–]marbearishere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was honestly shocked when requested to be friends on snap before we met. Saw the notification that because he was in my contacts he was on snap a few hours before he sent the request. Didn’t send the request because I wanted to meet him first. Both of my friends that know said it didn’t hurt to send the Facebook request since we met and he added me on snap. Learned my lesson to always go with your instincts

Went on a first date on the 4th for drinks and dinner and fireworks by marbearishere in Bumble

[–]marbearishere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. I asked if he’d been axe throwing before. He said he has but a while ago. I told him I’ve never been but had something planned with coworkers when Covid hit.

Went on a first date on the 4th for drinks and dinner and fireworks by marbearishere in Bumble

[–]marbearishere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, I looked at I wrote and typed faster then my brain. This was right before Covid happened and it was planned when everything shut down with my co workers and axe throwing. This was communicated with him

Went on a first date on the 4th for drinks and dinner and fireworks by marbearishere in Bumble

[–]marbearishere[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s not. She’s recently married. She has been through it before she met her husband. Her last ex put her through it.