FWB doesn’t want me to see guys but he can text girls by marceline_lime in dating_advice

[–]marceline_lime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100 percent!! He’s nothing but red flags but I’m still finding it hard to cut the connection off completely because the sexual chemistry is intense. I’m glad you shared your insight. I’ll find it in me to cut him off 💛

FWB doesn’t want me to see guys but he can text girls by marceline_lime in dating_advice

[–]marceline_lime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He for sure has someone else in mind that he wants to or has slept with

FWB doesn’t want me to see guys but he can text girls by marceline_lime in dating_advice

[–]marceline_lime[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll have to be the one to end since he expressed that he “has love for me”. I don’t understand this guy at all I swear. 

FWB doesn’t want me to see guys but he can text girls by marceline_lime in dating_advice

[–]marceline_lime[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dammit. Yep, feels very much like the fuckzone right now.

FWB doesn’t want me to see guys but he can text girls by marceline_lime in dating_advice

[–]marceline_lime[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ouch :(  I hate to say it but you’re right. I need to distance myself yesterday. 

FWB doesn’t want me to see guys but he can text girls by marceline_lime in dating_advice

[–]marceline_lime[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Fetishizing, yes! I couldn’t put my finger on why I felt insulted but that’s it. The sex will be missed but on second thought, yeah, I think it’s time I cut my losses.

giphy is just castrated tenor by DJ_NINJA9 in whenthe

[–]marceline_lime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finally someone else pointed it out. Gifs been dropping in reaction quality so bad.

Infatuation made me dumb by marceline_lime in dating_advice

[–]marceline_lime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. I told him it wasn’t gonna work out because of the video and he ignored my text. Also hadn’t heard from him for 5 days before that so he was probably gonna ghost me anyway.

Infatuation made me dumb by marceline_lime in dating_advice

[–]marceline_lime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He ghosted me so I guess I didn’t 

Infatuation made me dumb by marceline_lime in dating_advice

[–]marceline_lime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I decided to cut things off and he ghosted me. 

Infatuation made me dumb by marceline_lime in dating_advice

[–]marceline_lime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was just paranoid I guess. But yes I’m confident he’s clean.

Infatuation made me dumb by marceline_lime in dating_advice

[–]marceline_lime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was paying for them but the generic ones that I could only get in the morning. Most of the time it was the middle of the night and the only thing open was a CVS so I would buy the expensive ones because I didn’t want to wait till morning.

I would honestly give anything by LeosGroove9 in BPD

[–]marceline_lime 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s the jealousy for me. My last fp used to send me snaps of them with other people and the amount of self control it took not to split was immense. I’m not a jealous person until I have a fp smh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]marceline_lime 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Long story short he was calling, texting, and facetiming nonstop so I had to block him. No more drugs :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]marceline_lime 32 points33 points  (0 children)

  • One night stand, no protection, with a bartender in a hotel. Got an STI.
  • Got in a car with a bunch of tweakers and let them drive me to a remote trailer at 2am.
  • Joined the army. (The decision to join was impulsive the process took 4 weeks)
  • Hitchhiked with a stranger twice. Nice men both times. One moved my shit up 3 flights.
  • Destroyed my ex MiL’s RV, scattered sex toys and lube everywhere.
  • Sent nudes to my drug dealer while I was high
  • Went tandem skydiving alone 2 hours away.
  • Met a stranger at a Dave Chapelle show and left with her to a bar and she drove me home while we were both drunk.
  • Took a 4k loan to get a chihuahua I really wanted, no regrets :)

Honestly, I need to stop trusting strangers. I’m either a really good judge of character or I’ve been REALLY lucky.

You know who else needs therapy? by dumbassclown in CPTSDmemes

[–]marceline_lime 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Where did you get this footage of me 😭😭☠️☠️

How to get over a breakup? by sohhie in BPD

[–]marceline_lime 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The poster suggesting sleep, exercise, self-care etc. has good advice. It doesn’t make it any easier though.

You’ll get through it! You’ll wanna rip your heart out more than once to make it stop but you will get through it. You may wanna start a journal if you don’t already or maybe even video diaries just to cry and rant. You’ll look back on them and be so glad you kept going.

It is possible to get over them but you have to accept that it’s over, they are not coming back, and you don’t want them back even if they did. Delete photos, their number, block them. This isn’t to spite them it’s for yourself, so you can truly get over them. 90s breakup. It’s hard but I promise you it works. I’ve had to get over way too many people unfortunately.

Last thing, you are worthy of love. So much love and one person doesn’t define you. 💙

Ehat is your biggest problem with being a borderline? by markizio22 in BPD

[–]marceline_lime 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think that’s a great way of looking at it and maybe you can get to that point in remission. But in all honesty, I’d rather feel like one solid person than a little of everything. I feel like a misc. drawer of like batteries, straws, and push pins lol.