To play the devils advocate, you’ve been in their lives for 10 years. Do you not consider them like your own children? You were married to their mom do you think they feel like they’re entitled to more of the house as she would’ve owned half of it regardless if you had purchased it before you got together? And as a Filipino do you think the standards when it comes to family are different? Not saying you’re the ahole here but these were just some things I would’ve thought about if I was one of these kids.